Author selinaluv Posted February 10, 2017 Author Posted February 10, 2017 (edited) I hear you on that gut feeling. Mine has never been wrong either. I liked this guy less and less after reading more of your posts about him. He didnt ask questions about you??? Ummm.....NEXT!!!! I'm so glad you have a good feeling about the other guy. Thats always encouraging. I dont know much about the guy I'm going on a date with. He's not a frequent messager. Just one or two long, quality messages everyday and we've only been talking for a couple days. I'm trying to convince myself that I still have hope hahaha We shall see! Yeah, not many questions, nor trying to get to know me much in between dates. In stark contrast to the other who is really make an effort to get to know me, it is clear he is doing that to see if he and I connect. When you see the comparisons "side by side" it isn't even close. We have talked quite a bit (initiated by him) and conversations tend to go long. They are great though and he has kept it very gentlemanly. Obvious we are both talkers. But he also moved to asking for the date pretty quickly, so we are meeting within a decent amount of time. Some may say we are over communicating a bit, but it is fun and I am just going with it. I am trying to remember this means nothing until we meet, but it is a good start. He is not overly texty or clingy and seems to prefer actual phone conversation. And I also think what your guy is doing is also good. It is good he is keeping in touch versus the ones that disappear til right before the date. Honestly whenever that has happened, the date never worked out. Edited February 10, 2017 by selinaluv 1
Author selinaluv Posted February 12, 2017 Author Posted February 12, 2017 (edited) Hello, I figured I would provide an update on things... I never did hear from cowboy since my cancellation from a couple days ago. I imagine he got the vibe. I did have my other date (rescheduled to early Saturday evening). and it was a good one (lol sort of). He seems like a sweet, genuine guy, which is very good. We had a great meet up walk, then went to dinner. Lots of great talking and it was clear he was interested. He didn't want it to end and suggested we catch a movie and get coffee afterwards. During the movie you could tell something wasn't quite right and he admitted he was feeling nauseous but wanted to ride it out. After the movie he suggested we move to coffee, but I was concerned about his stomach. He said he would be fine with fresh air. Concerned he ate something ill, but I think he may have been coming down with something. During coffee you could tell he was really trying, but was not feeling 100%. It was getting late so I was okay with heading home. He said he was embarrassed and didn't want to end it this way. He said he will promise to see me again because he "is not done with this yet". He walked me to my car and actually powered through two great kisses goodbye. Asked me to text him when I got home. I did and he responded by the time I fell asleep that he "ended up getting full-blown sick and he feels like a train wreck". He said next time we meet will be better. I responded this morning and haven't heard back (it's early Sunday). LOL this is so typical of my dating life, but I do feel good about it and I'm sure we will see each other again. If not, I actually may chalk it up to the embarrassment he admitted. LOL just wanted to share my dating experience and how it is clear I just have to go with these things. Edited February 12, 2017 by selinaluv
SevenCity Posted February 12, 2017 Posted February 12, 2017 Hello, I figured I would provide an update on things... I never did hear from cowboy since my cancellation from a couple days ago. I imagine he got the vibe. I did have my other date (rescheduled to early Saturday evening). and it was a good one (lol sort of). He seems like a sweet, genuine guy, which is very good. We had a great meet up walk, then went to dinner. Lots of great talking and it was clear he was interested. He didn't want it to end and suggested we catch a movie and get coffee afterwards. During the movie you could tell something wasn't quite right and he admitted he was feeling nauseous but wanted to ride it out. After the movie he suggested we move to coffee, but I was concerned about his stomach. He said he would be fine with fresh air. Concerned he ate something ill, but I think he may have been coming down with something. During coffee you could tell he was really trying, but was not feeling 100%. It was getting late so I was okay with heading home. He said he was embarrassed and didn't want to end it this way. He said he will promise to see me again because he "is not done with this yet". He walked me to my car and actually powered through two great kisses goodbye. Asked me to text him when I got home. I did and he responded by the time I fell asleep that he "ended up getting full-blown sick and he feels like a train wreck". He said next time we meet will be better. I responded this morning and haven't heard back (it's early Sunday). LOL this is so typical of my dating life, but I do feel good about it and I'm sure we will see each other again. If not, I actually may chalk it up to the embarrassment he admitted. LOL just wanted to share my dating experience and how it is clear I just have to go with these things. I hope he didn't pass a stomach virus to you. But good date otherwise sounds like.
Author selinaluv Posted February 12, 2017 Author Posted February 12, 2017 I hope he didn't pass a stomach virus to you. But good date otherwise sounds like. Yes it was a great date and he has been communicating this morning and implying we will do it again. He says he is not feeling great, so hopefully I am okay. Lol last year around this time I got strep from a date. Just more bad luck. In this case I didn't want it to remain a cloud over a great date.
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