I was the OW Posted July 22, 2005 Posted July 22, 2005 First, I know I was stupid for calling my exmm last night but it finally made me realize it is definately over and I am not going to bother him anymore. I didn't call him to talk about us, or anything about us. Yesturday someone got fired. I didn't hear why so out of curiousity I called the exmm to see if he had heard why this person got fired. When I called his W answered. I was going to hang up but decided to just ask for him. His W must of not realized it was me because she handed the phone to exmm. He didn't know anything about it as he wasn't there yesturday afternoon. I could tell in his voice he was bothered, or nervous about my call, he didn't say much. We hung up and five minutes later his W calls me back. She told me to stop calling him or he will call the police and get a restrainer order. She told me that I only called and used a co-workers termination as an excuse and then she hung up. I am no longer going to contact him. I guess hearing from his W made me realize reality, they are back 2gether. I am going to leave them alone and not call him anymore. Thank you all for your advice and support.
blind folded Posted July 23, 2005 Posted July 23, 2005 Hey. That's sad, but in some ways it must be a relief too as there is now some closure. I (the OM) stopped contact with her for a week now... I never said anything about it, our last conversations were friendly. I am surprised she has not tried to call or email me. I logged into her account and noticed her life is going on as usual... I have the feeling she has moved on without telling me, so I am trying the same. Eventually I'm sure we will have to talk about it, and until then I hang in the balance...
StillHurtin Posted July 25, 2005 Posted July 25, 2005 I'm sorry you are hurting but I agree, you need to stop contacting him. You're heart will mend faster. When you keep contacting him you are picking at your wounds of the loss and making it bleed again. Are you still seeing that SG? If so, do you think he would like you contacting him? If he is such a sweet, nice guy like you say, don't risk loosing him over this exmm.
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