Dente Posted February 8, 2017 Posted February 8, 2017 i was wondering when dating or trying to reach a girls heart how much effort should both women and men have to be doing all the man jobs? I know when asking a women out the man has to pay because he invited her but lets say if he invites her to a dates everything goes well and invites her a coffee or lunch and the guy pays for everything shouldnt the women be also asking the guy if he needs something?
preraph Posted February 8, 2017 Posted February 8, 2017 Men make more money then women, so keep that in mind. Plus they are the ones who are usually more motivated to pursue. Traditionally, once they've been dating awhile, it would be nice if the woman baked cookies or invited the man over for a home-cooked meal or offered to pay for an inexpensive meal and then treated him by paying or cooking in on his birthday. If she asks you out, then she should pay or at least bring up the question of her paying half. If you're asking, you're paying unless she just shares out of the kindness of her heart, which many women will do. There is a reason behind why men mostly pay and it is that presumably the woman is screening him for a long-term relationship down the road and once she ends up pregnant, she will have to know he is able and willing to maintain her and the children until and unless she gets back to work. If you ask a woman out to dinner and you're thinking of going somewhere inexpensive but then she suggests something expensive, then is the time to say something like, That's more than I can afford right now, but we can certainly go if you want to go Dutch and pay half. Believe it or not, some guys get insulted when a woman tries to pay. It's always nice when whoever isn't paying at least offers to leave the tip, if they have any cash on them. If someone takes me to a concert and pays for the expensive tickets, I pay for drinks or parking or anything else that night.
alphamale Posted February 8, 2017 Posted February 8, 2017 Traditionally, once they've been dating awhile, it would be nice if the woman baked cookies or invited the man over for a home-cooked meal or offered to pay for an inexpensive meal and then treated him by paying or cooking in on his birthday. a blowjob would work too
d0nnivain Posted February 8, 2017 Posted February 8, 2017 It's not quid pro quo. Simple because you paid for the date doesn't mean the person you treated owes you anything. Most polite people will reciprocate & pay for dates but you can't count on that. Watch your budget accordingly.
Jj66 Posted February 8, 2017 Posted February 8, 2017 a blowjob would work too Bwahahah. Yes, blowjobs are always appreciated You know you've found a keeper when they treat you AND give you an impromptu blowjob afterward. Yes, it does happen.
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted February 8, 2017 Posted February 8, 2017 (edited) Men make more money then women This has been debunked so many times. Yes, on average Men make a SMALL amount more than Women do, but the difference is almost negligible, and often depends on career choices. There are some occupations where Women on average make more money than Men do. That being said OP, you should do drinks for a first date -- it's cheap. Guys need to step up and pay for the first couple dates though, it's basically expected of us since we asked them out. Sometimes after the 3rd date or later I'll let her pay or go dutch -- if she offers. Good luck. Edited February 8, 2017 by barcode88 1
M_D90 Posted February 8, 2017 Posted February 8, 2017 Since date #1 the woman I'm dating has offered to split the bill. I still paid the first date, but she was so persistent that I let her pick up the tab the next date when she offered. We either go 50/50 or if I pay for drinks, dinner, tickets etc., she'll pay the next time. We've been on 16 dates so far - started dating first week of December. It ain't complicated.
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