elaine567 Posted February 9, 2017 Posted February 9, 2017 Taking pics has never been so easy and loads of photo-editing software is free. So there is no real excuse for posting weird pics of old gfs, wives and random women and pics taken on holiday with your ex, as "I look good in it". This is your chance to maybe snag the woman of your dreams and with a pic of you smooching up to some other woman, then the majority will just go NEXT... 3
Shining One Posted February 9, 2017 Posted February 9, 2017 This is your chance to maybe snag the woman of your dreams and with a pic of you smooching up to some other woman, then the majority will just go NEXT...Is there any data backing up this claim? I've experimented with my profile quite a bit over the years and I've found better results by having a couple pictures with women in there. In fact, the suggestion to add these pictures came from my female friends who were helping me with the profile. 2
SevenCity Posted February 9, 2017 Posted February 9, 2017 Is there any data backing up this claim? I've experimented with my profile quite a bit over the years and I've found better results by having a couple pictures with women in there. In fact, the suggestion to add these pictures came from my female friends who were helping me with the profile. That's how Elaine feels. Studies have shown that guys shirtless pics pull more chicks too despite all of them saying they don't like it. 2
Space Ritual Posted February 9, 2017 Posted February 9, 2017 I heard back from him. He's half way across the country on a business trip this week She's not his sister or an ex.... "No, thats a girl I used to work with. I just dont have many pics of myself so I had to use whatever I could find. My sister is actually really pretty though. A little too pretty for her own good, she gets whatever she wants. Shes a little spoiled. I'm glad you can come out. Does Sunday work for you?" I'm glad I asked and did so in a polite, casual way Yay! No Marlboros? Damn! 1
Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646 Posted February 9, 2017 Posted February 9, 2017 Is there any data backing up this claim? I've experimented with my profile quite a bit over the years and I've found better results by having a couple pictures with women in there. In fact, the suggestion to add these pictures came from my female friends who were helping me with the profile. I think it shows that you're socially well adjusted, and less likely to be a loner (or awkward). I guess it also weeds out the ones who are insecure, so that's an added benefit as well.
Author Dis Posted February 9, 2017 Author Posted February 9, 2017 Taking pics has never been so easy and loads of photo-editing software is free. So there is no real excuse for posting weird pics of old gfs, wives and random women and pics taken on holiday with your ex, as "I look good in it". This is your chance to maybe snag the woman of your dreams and with a pic of you smooching up to some other woman, then the majority will just go NEXT... If he was 'smooching up' to her then I would pass. They're body language was close (as in sitting next to each other and her leaning in for the pic) but I saw nothing inappropriate or romantic about it He shouldve put a caption on the pic but I cant pick apart everything a guy does. I have to be reasonably open 2
Author Dis Posted February 9, 2017 Author Posted February 9, 2017 No Marlboros? Damn! Lmao!!!! You're too funny!
Sweetfish Posted February 9, 2017 Posted February 9, 2017 (edited) See what social programming does... Now all that and the girl was just a girl. Im glad the O.P. stuck with her gut. Edited February 9, 2017 by Sweetfish 1
AdentureWithMe Posted February 9, 2017 Posted February 9, 2017 I think you can ask, it's fair game. As another user said HE posted it so if there is any *awkwardness* to the conversation it's his own damn fault. If he gets weird about it's bc he KNOWS he's weird to post an ex on a dating profile. That being said I have a cropped picture of me and one of my exs on a dating app. The app wouldn't let me crop the picture any smaller, so a small part of him is still in it. I only used that pic bc I thought it was a really good picture of me. 1
Author Dis Posted February 9, 2017 Author Posted February 9, 2017 I think you can ask, it's fair game. As another user said HE posted it so if there is any *awkwardness* to the conversation it's his own damn fault. If he gets weird about it's bc he KNOWS he's weird to post an ex on a dating profile. That being said I have a cropped picture of me and one of my exs on a dating app. The app wouldn't let me crop the picture any smaller, so a small part of him is still in it. I only used that pic bc I thought it was a really good picture of me. I agree, since he put it up, I can ask about it. I could tell he knew it wasnt that great of an idea to have that pic up and his tone was a bit like, "Oops didnt mean for it to come off like that" but I liked that he explained it to me and didnt seem put off that I asked It wasnt a huge deal to me and thats the way I presented the question, a basic inquiry We'll see how the date goes! 1
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