Living In My Parents House And Meeting Women

[GabrielJim]

Hi there,

 

During the past months there has been something concerning me. However let me quickly start by explaining my situation. About a year ago, I quit my job because I wanted to start my own business.

 

Things didn't go as planned and eventually I had no money. So I had to move back to my parents house. After a few months, I broke up with my ex-girlfriend. I soon found out she was deceiving me and probably even cheating.

 

Anyway I been about 7 months single. I have plans of during the next 4 to 6 months to have my own place again.

 

However my sex drive is driving me nuts and I feel like having sex. I can't help it. Some days it even gets physically painful.

 

I also don't like porn and the activities that come with it. I find it extremely boring.

 

I want go out and meet women. But at the same time, I feel uncomfortable with my situation.

 

1 - I don't want to go on a date and need to explain my situation to a woman I barely met.

2 - I feel like women will probably judge me and consider me a loser.

3 - I also don't know where to take women if things go along well if you know what I mean.

 

Is all my concerns real or just in my head? I would like some advice please.

[d0nnivain]

Date & if things are going well, spring for a romantic night in a hotel or go back to her place.

[Gaeta]

Depends how old you are ?

[BrianSmith]

yeah go out on a date

Edited February 6, 2017 by BrianSmith

[GabrielJim]

I am 31. I know women expects guys to be doing better financially with my age. Probably I am just thinking too much anyway.

[preraph]

If you have all the trappings of having been successful at one time, a halfway decent car, nice clothes, good haircut, some money for a date, and are currently working full time, then a woman will be more willing to listen to your story of starting your own business and then failing and living at home to save up money again.

 

However, if you look like a bum who never did do well, no one will buy it and will assume you are just a guy living in his mom's basement trying to get laid.

 

I doubt you can afford a hotel, but maybe her place. I do think you'll do better once you have your own place. Now if you are not working, I wouldn't even bother to date....