Dating, but he's still active [online].

[Gossipgale]

I met a guy [online] (we "met" online a few days earlier) the day I was leaving to visit my family for the holidays. Since returning to the country (I'm a foreigner) we've seen each other most weekends and about once during the week. We don't text much which is nice because I only like texting to make plans. He rarely uses his phone in general. We've even gone on a camping trip. I noticed a few weeks back that he was still "active" [online]. Although the first night we met he said he wasn't into a long term relationship. I told him I just wanted to have fun, but mentions things like "we need to try that restaurant". Last night we cooked a meal then I slept over.

 

Although I've gone on two dates with other guys since meeting him, nothing has happened with them. I just want to keep my options open--incase I scare him away. Today, after I woke up at 6:00 am to leave his house to go to work, I noticed a few hours later that he was again "active" [online]. I feel silly bringing this up because it will sound like I'm spying on him, but I'm also hurt. What should I do? Also he has a handful of sisters (if that makes a difference).

Edited February 6, 2017 by a LoveShack.org Moderator

[Erik30]

Although the first night we met he said he wasn't into a long term relationship. I told him I just wanted to have fun,...

 

^^ There's your answer. You're not in a relationship, plus you're also dating other guys.. Why shouldn't he be allowed to keep his options open, just like you're doing? If you want something more serious, you have to talk about it.

Edited February 6, 2017 by Erik30

[Gaeta]

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He doesn't want a long term relationship, you only want to have fun, I don't understand the problem?

 

Did you lie when you said you just wanted to have fun? Because he is not doing anything wrong.

Edited February 6, 2017 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
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