1q3455402828193 Posted February 6, 2017 Posted February 6, 2017 So....for the past couple of months, I have been thinking about my ex. I reached out to a mutual friend who was able to direct me to where I can contact him....snapchat. I never use my snapchat, so I decided to download it. As soon as i opened the app, his friend request was sitting in there (who knows for how long). Anyways, I DM'd him and he instantly responded and we exchanged contact numbers. Since then, we've been talking/texting everyday. We facetimed twice and when we communicate, he is thoroughly still engaged. He even told me couple of days ago that I've been on his mind, which is why he sent me a snapchat request, hoping one day i would respond. So, today, I asked him if he still has feelings for me and his response was, "i dont know...the patent is still pending". Instantly, I got sad, but I chose to fight pass those emotions and I moved the subject onto something lighter, so that things keep progressing with the both of us. Here is a backdrop to our relationship: We were together back in 2009. We were in high school at the time. He was totally into me, showing me all signs of interest. He pursued me, walked me to my classes, we wrote letters to each other each class period, talked on the phone all the time. He even said "i love you" first. He's the only guy to have ever given me a present. And guess what? We didnt have sex. Then, I ruined it by breaking up with him during summer break. He wasnt paying me much attention and I automatically assumed he was no longer interested. I realized i made a mistake after seeing his reaction to the break up....he became very cold to me and quickly started talking to another female. At the time i met him, i was 15 and going through alot....i was being abused and witnessing abuse. He was my escape...and so when he got busy with football during the summer, it made me feel all alone again. I never explained to him what was going on. EVER. He wants me to visit him and I'm thinking of doing so next month. Does this reunion sound promising? Most exes typically stay buried in the past. The fact that he still wants to talk to me, see me, after I broke his heart YEARS ago (and he hasnt seen me face-to-face since), says to me that he still cares. But is it enough to rekindle something? Or am i reading too much into it?
diddy Posted February 16, 2017 Posted February 16, 2017 the only way to find out is by first visiting and see,after all u havent seen each other for years,who knows he might feel something but..dont forget the fact that u broke up with him ,so try to see things from his side of view not yours 1
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