E3ZY219 Posted February 5, 2017 Posted February 5, 2017 Senior in college year, going to ask a girl who I think is attractive to study with me for an exam we have coming up in about two weeks. There have been subtle signs of interest on her part with me catching her looking at me a couple of time [not much, I know], but I want to know how to show interest on the study date. Should I use eye-contact flirting? Should I talk about other things besides studying such as her interests? Would it be awkward to say that I enjoyed studying with her and we should do it again, or is that too casual? Should I instead say that next time we should go out for fun, instead of just studying? Thanks! 1
preraph Posted February 5, 2017 Posted February 5, 2017 Ask her to the next school function, or next time you study together, when you ask, say "How about we go get some pizza before we go to your house to study?" Then take her to the place, act like a gentleman, buy a pizza and talk.
d0nnivain Posted February 5, 2017 Posted February 5, 2017 Sit too closer or at least closer then you normally would. Find a reason to touch her. Lean over her shoulder if you can. Compliment her. When the study date is over, ask if she wants to grab coffee, food or a drink with you after the test to celebrate or commiserate. 1
ElizabethIII Posted February 5, 2017 Posted February 5, 2017 (edited) You've already started a thread about this and you were told not to ask her to study for an exam as that is a one way street to the friendzone. If this was a serious exam, i would a bit annoyed that a guy treated a study session as a way to try and come on to me. Wait until the exam is over and ask me out properly but dont waste my study time with pseudo study sessions. Youre going to be distracted from studying during the "date" and not focused. Dont waste her time. Ask her for a coffee after class or after the exam. Edited February 5, 2017 by ElizabethIII 2
thecrucible Posted February 5, 2017 Posted February 5, 2017 I agree with d0nnivain. I think you should treat it as studying and focus on what you are doing. I mean maybe I'm bit of a nerd but if it was me, I'd want to be focused on actually studying. You could get to know her a bit but not go full on, maybe maintain a bit of mystery and impress her with your knowledge. You could arrange to go on a drink/have a coffee (as d0nnivain suggested) after the exam to relax a bit. If there's an upcoming event on campus, invite her to that or something.
coolheadal Posted February 6, 2017 Posted February 6, 2017 Study first past the exam together then ask her out on date. To ask her after the exam is better if you both pass it? If you don't gives you both another excuse to get together again. You already know the tail signs if the woman in question is head over heels excited to be in your presence. 1. Eye contact 2. Smiles 3. Body Language 4. Accidental Hand Touch Contact Oops
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