avoforastig Posted February 3, 2017 Posted February 3, 2017 Since jumping back into the dating scene, I have had the good fortune of many women wanting to date me. However, three women canceled on me in the past week. The first said she recently decided to be exclusive with someone. The second canceled a few hours before the date and said she was overwhelmed with work. However, she offered to reschedule immediately and apologized. She gave me a list of times we could meet the following week. I actually didn't mind as I was quite fatigued myself. I'm a man of my word though and would never cancel a date. The third canceled three days ahead a time but also offered to reschedule immediately. Not sure if I should give second and third women another shot. I have three other women I'm planning to see over the next week. Therefore, I'm not sure if it's realistic to plan on seeing all them. Given that I have other options, is it even worth my time scheduling another date with either of them? The reason I made so many dates within a short timeframe is women are often very flaky when it comes to the first date. I assumed one or more of the dates would not end up happening, so I was unfortunately right. How many women can I plan on realistically seeing in one week? How many should I schedule, possibly assuming many will fall through?
ThisisIt606 Posted February 3, 2017 Posted February 3, 2017 Why wouldn't you? This is a first date and they offered to reschedule. If they were just blowing you off there would be no offer to reschedule. Meet them and see if you feel any sort of connection. They don't know you've been canceled on my multiple women. It just seems to be a string of unfortunate luck on your part. I think you should just go on the date and then evaluate. 1
Author avoforastig Posted February 3, 2017 Author Posted February 3, 2017 Why wouldn't you? This is a first date and they offered to reschedule. If they were just blowing you off there would be no offer to reschedule. Meet them and see if you feel any sort of connection. They don't know you've been canceled on my multiple women. It just seems to be a string of unfortunate luck on your part. I think you should just go on the date and then evaluate. I do want to see them. However, I just don't know how many first dates I can handle in one week. Its stressful and time consuming. My fear is being so burned out that I'll screw my chances up on a date due to exhaustion. I want to put them at the bottom of the dating queue. Not to mention, if things go well with one of the others, I need some time for second dates.
ThisisIt606 Posted February 3, 2017 Posted February 3, 2017 See the other 3 women first and then try to squeeze the flakes into your "off days". Tell them you'd like to reschedule but your next week is pretty hectic... offer only a few days that would work. If you don't want to get burnt out, the dates don't have to be hours long. Definitely stay at least an hour if you're having a good time. always follow-up with a text after to show your interest
Author avoforastig Posted February 3, 2017 Author Posted February 3, 2017 See the other 3 women first and then try to squeeze the flakes into your "off days". Tell them you'd like to reschedule but your next week is pretty hectic... offer only a few days that would work. If you don't want to get burnt out, the dates don't have to be hours long. Definitely stay at least an hour if you're having a good time. always follow-up with a text after to show your interest The other 3 dates are nicely spaced: tonight, Monday, and Thursday. I am a busy man with my work, so I can't go overboard. Its tempting to squeeze in date on Tuesday, but I think you're right to put them on hold until going on the other dates.
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