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7 dates. Texted me first, I responded, he didn't- why?


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I have LOTS of hobbies, so many it raises eyebrows because people aren't used to all my "activities". Been there and done that with the advanced degree. I told him I was crazy busy with it and always studying.

 

It wasn't a "wah he didn't text me back" it's a lack of consideration that he didn't realize/resent/explain that his text didn't go through that got me upset in light of recent events.

 

I'm not your ex bf... I called him ONCE. I think people are forgetting it was ONCE as in 1 as in singular.

 

Calling is mature. Much more mature instead of sending multiple hey what's up? did you get my text? etc texts.

 

If I don't have a lot to do at work, it's not like I can leave. So I treat this board as a diary that can talk back. Is great entertainment.

There is no need for you to get defensive and explain yourself to us, OP. I'm sure you are a very busy person who is too cool to be taking this seriously indeed. Just consider what everyone has been telling you on your threads, and realize that by asking all the time whether it is OK to text or call back for this little thing or that little thing as you've been doing, you come across quite insecure. The right guy won't be scared away by one extra harmless text.

 

Good for you for CALLING him and clearing it up. I am glad to hear this is all settled.

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