Chrys Posted February 2, 2017 Posted February 2, 2017 So we only recently started dating (about 3 weeks ago) and yesterday she said to me: I still don't have a feeling we are a couple and i am afraid this will never change. I think i will never be able to love you nor see us functioning as a couple. We decided that we won't break up but if, by some time that passes she still won't be able to love me we will break up. So what can i do here? Is there any way to turn this around? We still didn't have sex (my mistake), and she was the one that asked me for a relationship and started all of this which is why it is strange to me seeing her change her mind so quickly. To be honest we really don't act like a couple, nor was there any physical contact at all between us, but that is mostly because i get rejected every time i try anything in front of others even though everyone knows we are together, even our parents. In these 3 weeks we have only seen eachother twice, which is why i think she said what she said. This wednesday i have my house all for myself so i invited her over and she accepted. I told her we won't Skype anymore either since we used to do this everyday.
mikeylo Posted February 2, 2017 Posted February 2, 2017 You have been dating for 3 weeks. Have met twice. Have met parents. What am I missing?
Author Chrys Posted February 2, 2017 Author Posted February 2, 2017 (edited) You have been dating for 3 weeks. Have met twice. Have met parents. What am I missing? Haven't met parents. They just know we are together and go to college together. Were on a date twice in which both times we went for a coffee and our friends were there. Basically, we weren't alone once in those 3 weeks and that is why i think she said what she said. Edited February 2, 2017 by Chrys
Simple Logic Posted February 2, 2017 Posted February 2, 2017 I think she just friend zoned you. Move on.
Recommended Posts