Tlb765 Posted February 1, 2017 Posted February 1, 2017 Hello everyone, The love of my life recently left me for her ex. We dated for over 8 months and I know it isn't that long but a lot happened in those 8 months. We've been life long friends and we connected Romantically and I fell for her.we are both photographers and we had so much in common. After 3 months she got a puppy , I mean she bought it but I took care ofemmy everyday it was like our dog . We got it together and took care of it together . After a couple months of a great relationship her mother died. After her mom died everything went downhill . She started drinking a lot of wine and being mean to me and never coming home . I would be with the dog all night. She ended up leaving me and. I moved out. She kept EMMY and we were off and on for a while and I was helping take care of her dog . She finally made a decision out of the blue to tell me she was moving to itlay And quitting her full time job. She asked me to take care of EMMY and once she got settled in EMMY and I could come visit and we could make it work. Then it's New Years morning and she woke up and told me she didn't want to. W with me anymore . So I took EMMY and I moved out. She is suppose to leave for Italy feb 14 and so we haven't had any contact . We blocked each other on social media and really can only email. So today someone at my work asked if she had left already for Italy because she saw a photo that ashley posted in Columbia . I broke my rules and I looked on Facebook. Come to find out she went to Columbia with her ex who she repaeadtly said she did not love anymore and who was mentally abusive to her and physically when drinking . I'm so hurt over it and I feel like I wasn't good enough to her. I don't know what to do and I'm very upset. I just want to move on.... but I don't know what to do . Just on here looking for a piece of mind ... my heart is really broken. I am 26 years old .. :/ and I still love her .
anuba Posted February 2, 2017 Posted February 2, 2017 Don't blame yourself for anything she did. It's not worth driving yourself crazy trying to figure out why people do the things that they do. Whenever anyone spends significant amounts of time discussing an ex, it seems like a warning sign they may still have feelings for that person. Best you can do now is move forward and don't beat yourself up over this. It hurts to love someone who doesn't feel the same, but eventually you'll see it's better to be with someone who loves and appreciates you.
LastAcorn99 Posted February 2, 2017 Posted February 2, 2017 I’m sorry about this, friend. Breakup is never easy, no matter what the cause, and I know that it’s painful and confusing to be at the receiving end of it. It’s possible that your ex jumped in to this relationship before dealing with her past relationship fully – I doubt it was about you being “not good enough” for her. I would suggest that you take the time to grief this loss, but don’t linger in sadness -- as tempting as it might be. And, surround yourself with loved ones who can be of support to you. Take care!
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