Author ozziegal8 Posted February 14, 2017 Author Posted February 14, 2017 Thanks guys I agree with everything you have said, its funny my friends all think that he may just be busy hmmm
d0nnivain Posted February 14, 2017 Posted February 14, 2017 Your friends are naïve. This man is married in more than name only. He wants you to be his dirty little secret side piece. He has no respect for you. Have enough respect for yourself to stop bothering with him. Find a man who is available to be exclusive with you who proudly wants to date you. 1
Author ozziegal8 Posted February 15, 2017 Author Posted February 15, 2017 Your friends are naïve. This man is married in more than name only. He wants you to be his dirty little secret side piece. He has no respect for you. Have enough respect for yourself to stop bothering with him. Find a man who is available to be exclusive with you who proudly wants to date you. I am not bothering him, I have not instigated one message to him its all him.
Author ozziegal8 Posted February 15, 2017 Author Posted February 15, 2017 I know plenty of "really busy" men...doctors,lawyers, judges etc... they all still communicate regularly with the one they are interested in. Multiple daily phone calls, texts and loads of staying connected. Busy does not mean an interested man doesn't reach out. Taken men are the only ones I know that don't communicate at night or on weekends. He's married. Or he's separated but already living with someone new. He called you when he was in town...he figured he might get some sex while visiting for a few days. No call ahead = he had no for thought to line it up ahead of time = he wasn't thinking of you. When men are interested they MAKE time every day.[/QUO Why do you think I said I was busy when he text me at 11am the day he was in town. I wasnt busy at all, went for a run instead in my lunch break. Then I said i was working late. He was only in town for 2 hours not sure if we could have fit in sex in that time lol
elaine567 Posted February 15, 2017 Posted February 15, 2017 Did you actually invite him to the football as you said you were going to? What did he say?
jiffysound Posted February 15, 2017 Posted February 15, 2017 He told me he was separated 3 years not divorced This caught my eye, 3 years and no divorce? What does he have? Cold-feet-divorce? I would say pay close attention and keep your guard up, this may end badly for you when he goes back to his wife, and he can since they are married. I'm sorry you didn't find the right guy
brigitte 1 Posted February 15, 2017 Posted February 15, 2017 No texting on weekends and at night means he's with another woman at those times. He's taken honey and trying to cheat with you. This red flag doesn't get any redder. The dude is a huge waste of your time. No reason to try and figure anything else out.
Author ozziegal8 Posted February 16, 2017 Author Posted February 16, 2017 Did you actually invite him to the football as you said you were going to? What did he say? i said i couldnt see him for lunch then i said i was going to the football next week and to let me know next time he is down he said ok i will, next week at the football? i took that as he wanted to go so i spaid 'i will see if i can get tix' he replied a few more times i showed a smart friend she said that's not him inviting himself to footy so i just left it and guess what no messages following it up. Idiot!!! im going to say next time he texts 'hey im going away this weekend and was going to drop into your town as i drive through there on they way, lets have coffee' betya he doesnt reply lol
Author ozziegal8 Posted February 16, 2017 Author Posted February 16, 2017 This caught my eye, 3 years and no divorce? What does he have? Cold-feet-divorce? I would say pay close attention and keep your guard up, this may end badly for you when he goes back to his wife, and he can since they are married. I'm sorry you didn't find the right guy yup i have a feeling he is not even seperated!! even seperated men give a girl more attention 1
elaine567 Posted February 16, 2017 Posted February 16, 2017 yup i have a feeling he is not even seperated!! even seperated men give a girl more attention Truly separated men can act like single guys they can text at weekends and nights too, they can arrange dates, can enter relationships and even live with their gfs. They tend to not act sneaky. The problem with separated guys is that they often have not got over the ex and hence you end up being the rebound and that tends to hurt sooner or later.
Author ozziegal8 Posted February 16, 2017 Author Posted February 16, 2017 Truly separated men can act like single guys they can text at weekends and nights too, they can arrange dates, can enter relationships and even live with their gfs. They tend to not act sneaky. The problem with separated guys is that they often have not got over the ex and hence you end up being the rebound and that tends to hurt sooner or later. um so what are you saying? he is separated but not over his ex?
elaine567 Posted February 16, 2017 Posted February 16, 2017 um so what are you saying? he is separated but not over his ex? NO Your guy cannot text at weekends and nights, so he is NOT separated or even if he is, he has another gf.
Author ozziegal8 Posted February 16, 2017 Author Posted February 16, 2017 NO Your guy cannot text at weekends and nights, so he is NOT separated or even if he is, he has another gf. I think its a case of he isnt separated from his wife and there is no gf there is a wife! 1
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