Thefreeones Posted January 31, 2017 Posted January 31, 2017 Guys & girls, dumpees specifically.. when you have exhausted every last effort to try and re-kindle the relationship and nothing and I mean nothing has helped. My god Just say f*ck it. YOU DID YOUR BEST. YOU DIDNT GIVE UP. Take pride in that, take pride in the fact that you weren't the one who threw in the towel... don't blame yourself if you know you tried your hardest to be better. Don't blame yourself if you didn't get a reason, don't blame yourself AT ALL.. even if you cheated.. accept it. You would have done the same thing. Dumpees let's unite as one and accept our fate, there are SO MANY FISH IN THE SEA. For both men & women. 9
jorgeg3d Posted January 31, 2017 Posted January 31, 2017 True! So many fish. Now my problem is, this wall that we inevitably build to protect ourselves. I'm in the phase where its hard to let women into my heart. 2
VeveCakes Posted January 31, 2017 Posted January 31, 2017 Don't blame yourself if you didn't get a reason, don't blame yourself AT ALL.. This is the hardest one for me to let go of, I still have no reason why my ex dumped me. But you are right - it's not my fault. F*ck it... 6
divegrl Posted January 31, 2017 Posted January 31, 2017 " don't blame yourself if you didn't get a reason"..... yup. F**k it! 3
BluesPower Posted January 31, 2017 Posted January 31, 2017 I guess that I was the dumper... I tried everything way more than I should have ever put in to the marriage. It took so long to understand that she just did not love me or at least not the way I needed to be. I have no regrets. Maybe one, the wall. The wall is there and it always will be. It upsets my GF's because they want all of me be it will never happen again, ever. She broke me and I will never be able to "Truly" love again. Some girls can't take it and some are ok with it. It is what it is... 2
Bromeo Posted January 31, 2017 Posted January 31, 2017 I reached this point Sunday. I had left her alone, went NC for 30 days after 5 months of on and off chasing. She emailed me, and started anew this whole nonsense over a two week period. She would text at 4am and not respond over and over. I have had enough. I listed my chief complaints that kept me fuming, called, delineated them, and told her she didn't deserve me. Blocked her on phone, email, and FB. If she wants me, she knows where I live. To keep my umbrage elevated, my supporters tell me how she is laughing at my voicemail. That indeed works. At some point, as much as you may love them, and miss the awesome times together, you have to throw your hands up and: CHUCK IT IN THE **** IT BUCKET. I'm there. Best wishes friends. 2
jamili Posted January 31, 2017 Posted January 31, 2017 I reached this point Sunday. I had left her alone, went NC for 30 days after 5 months of on and off chasing. She emailed me, and started anew this whole nonsense over a two week period. She would text at 4am and not respond over and over. I have had enough. I listed my chief complaints that kept me fuming, called, delineated them, and told her she didn't deserve me. Blocked her on phone, email, and FB. If she wants me, she knows where I live. To keep my umbrage elevated, my supporters tell me how she is laughing at my voicemail. That indeed works. At some point, as much as you may love them, and miss the awesome times together, you have to throw your hands up and: CHUCK IT IN THE **** IT BUCKET. I'm there. Best wishes friends. Probably not laughing at it. I doubt that. But probably got that ego validated... which is probably what she was after in the first place. NC forever now and show her you truly no longer give a ****.
HeartCease Posted February 1, 2017 Posted February 1, 2017 Guys & girls, dumpees specifically.. when you have exhausted every last effort to try and re-kindle the relationship and nothing and I mean nothing has helped. My god Just say f*ck it. YOU DID YOUR BEST. YOU DIDNT GIVE UP. Take pride in that, take pride in the fact that you weren't the one who threw in the towel... don't blame yourself if you know you tried your hardest to be better. Don't blame yourself if you didn't get a reason, don't blame yourself AT ALL.. even if you cheated.. accept it. You would have done the same thing. Dumpees let's unite as one and accept our fate, there are SO MANY FISH IN THE SEA. For both men & women. A nice enough sentiment, to be sure. But like most things, easier said than done. 1
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