flsgirl Posted July 21, 2005 Posted July 21, 2005 I just need to vent a bit. Why does someone always come back into your life when you're almost over them? It always seems to happen and then it sets me back. A guy I had dated for a little while broke up with a few months ago. I was a little shocked because we got a long great and never fought. I could tell he was pulling away so I asked him and then he just gave me a whole bunch of b.s. excuses. I lost some respect for him because he couldn't just tell me the truth. I was upset because I actually liked this one (that's rare). I had a run in with him a week later and it didn't go too well. I said hello and then ignored him at a club we were at. I felt bad about it, but I was upset and there was really no reason for me to act like that because we ended on "good terms" (do break-ups really ever end on that?) A few weeks later I e-mailed and apologized for acting childish. I never heard back from him until now - FOUR MONTHS LATER! After that e-mail I never had any sort of contact with him. I have too much pride. I REFUSE to been seen as needy or psycho. A few weeks ago I got an e-mail from him. It was very friendly and funny. He said he wanted to hang out sometime. So, I e-mailed him back a few days later in an equally funny letter. Now it's 3 weeks later and I still haven't heard from him. It just pisses me off because I was almost over him and then he comes back in to my life causing me fall back a few steps. Then I don't hear from him again. AHHHHHH! Luckily I'm so busy and have a great support system. Unfortunately he's now in the back of my mind. I hate this!
queenie01 Posted July 21, 2005 Posted July 21, 2005 Trust me they ALL do it on purpose, they dont want you to be able to get over them so they resurface... Am i right or what?
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