virgomaniac Posted January 31, 2017 Posted January 31, 2017 I had a question, would really appreciate the help. So I dated this girl for a while, we broke up for some stupid reason, never had a fight. She started dating someone, I was single then. I had asked to get back and she had said she loved me but could not stop seeing the other guy. It got hard and emotional and was the actual break up we never had before then. After a while I moved on and started seeing someone else, she knew it and started becoming a little interested in what was going on and would ask me about my love life. Recently I broke up with the other girl, obviously it was rebound. So my ex started texting me alot. And then last week we went to spend a day in another city, she had never been there and always wanted to go so I took her. She didnt hesistate to go with me. We spent the whole day there, it was wonderful, at times she would hold my arm. Then when we were driving back, she put her head on my shoulder through the 4hr drive back to our city. And a couple of times she ran her hand on my chest too lol. Honestly I loved it, I still love her and so I didnt push her away. So anyway, the next day she did not text me at all. Then I saw her day after, we work at the same place too. So she avoided eye contact, and hesitated to say hi. I went and spoke with her and she talked normally then. She was txting non stop before the trip and then all of a sudden she stopped and would send one or two a day now. She is still seeing someone, its been 6 months I think. What do you think is going on? Does she really have strong feelings and is trying to hide / fight them and thats why is growing a lil cold towards me? Do you think she would want to come back? If so, what should I do so I can have her back? I really love her and would give anything to make her mine.
d0nnivain Posted January 31, 2017 Posted January 31, 2017 I think she doesn't really want you but she doesn't want anybody else to have you either. If she is still dating this other guy she had no business going anywhere with you or running her hand down your chest (flirting). If I was that other guy I'd dump her for being untrustworthy. You also need to consider her lack of character / morals when assessing what you want. At this point you are stroking her ego but I don't see where she wants a relationship with you. Move on & stop interacting with her. You won't get over her if you are still in touch.
Ieris Posted January 31, 2017 Posted January 31, 2017 Sometimes when you see an ex again those feelings can come flooding back, she enjoyed flirting with you on your day out but the guilt probably kicked in the next day as she is with someone else. So I suggest you stop lurking around and move on. If you wanted to be with you, the other guy would be out of the picture but that's not the case here.
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