dogood4urself Posted July 21, 2005 Posted July 21, 2005 Ok, So I think I am doing really well at getting over my ex... I haven't thought about her, I don't really get sad about her anymore... I have been hooking up with other people...etc She still has the potential to f***c me up though... I ran into her at a street fair... I was civil and ran away but it totally ruined my day... I was/am really angry about the way that she treated me. Part of me knows its not her fault (she didn't realize what she was doing) and part of me is pissed off, and just wants to tell her to go f***c her self.... We were faux friends for a minute, but then I just kinda cut her off without telling her, (i.e. no calling back, no writing back..) She wrote me an e-mail saying she thought I was mad at her. And that it was eating her up inside, and that she would be open to talking with me... Part of me really wants to talk to her and let her know what the f***c is up, and part of me does not want 2 hash old sh*t out. I think it is irrelevant to talk about your relationship once it has been over for a couple of months... She also won't be open to listening to what is going on, she will just shut down and start crying like she always did... and I will be a sucker and forgive her again and feel like sh*t for doing it.. Is this even worth it? Do I even want to be friends with her? Most of me says no... but I don't know.... Plus I want my stuff back!!
Marshbear Posted July 21, 2005 Posted July 21, 2005 Don't be friends. It won't help your situation and will just make the two of you unhappy. You are dating others so I would continue doing this and leave the past in the past. No good can come of it....
greenhorn Posted July 21, 2005 Posted July 21, 2005 Never try to be friends after breakup, it is lethal. There are many ppl in the world whom you can make friend.
Author dogood4urself Posted July 21, 2005 Author Posted July 21, 2005 That's the thing, I have f***cing awesome friends! I have made more since I am not with her anymore. I really don't want her in my life, but for some reason I am afraid to tell her that... I don't want it to be wierd if we are ever to run into each other....we live in a small city...
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