The girl i ve date changed her behaviour.what shall i do and how to handle it?

[edelveis]

Hello.So i was at the library one day and one girl approached me and initiated a conversation with me.i really liked her so we were writting in whatssap for a week and finally we arranged a date. it went wonderfull we stayed at the bar for 4 hours talking about everything.the only negative thing i noticed was that she is a little of a feminist and she didnt like the fact that i payed for everything. right after the date when she got home she messaged me telling me what a great time she had and that she would love to meet again soon to buy me a drink too!i texted her the day after but the next day i didnt coz i m a little egoist and wanted to see if she ll text first.she didnt and 4 days left like that. When i texted her yesterday again she was cold and relying late but with big messages.i texted her today as well but she doesnt answer me and i see she is online during the day.what might be happening?any advices?

[d0nnivain]

You decided to play a power game She saw through your plan & didn't like it so she moved on.

 

 

Don't play games going forward

[edelveis]

thank you very much for your answer.but i dont think its that simple.

[basil67]

thank you very much for your answer.but i dont think its that simple.

 

Why do you believe it's more complex than this?

[Satu]

thank you very much for your answer.but i dont think its that simple.

 

It is that simple.

 

Don't play games.

 

People don't like it.

 

 

Take care.

[winny]

Defeated at your own game.. ha ha

[Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646]

Never wait more than a day unless you already have plans

[Sara1989]

If a guy did not bother to text me for 4 days, I would write him off.

 

This girl has lost interest, maybe you should think before playing games next time.

[edelveis]

Maybe its thats simple but nobody answers the second scale of my question.so everybody tells me just give it up.i am sorry to ruin it for you guys but thats pathetic.lifes not supposed to be like that. it is funny coz nobody ever in hear tells people to not give up and fix their mistake. you only know how to judge and i am sorry to hear about it.i made mistake and what to fix it with this girl so if somebody wants to help me with it please do.if not then please ignore me.

[edelveis]

man laughing at me about it is really immature.i didnt write here to be laughed at and judged.i m seeking advice.i should better not write here again then.

[WaitingForBardot]

It's called a window of opportunity, and you missed it; it is that simple. Whatever the reason, by delaying you gave her the impression that she was not the priority and that was not acceptable to her. You can continue to try with this girl but the odds are very much against you.

 

My advice is to understand this, move on, and not make the same mistake in the future.

[GeorgeWP93]

Everyone's already told you the truth but let's be honest she could have easily sent you a text if she was interested, works both ways surely?

[smackie9]

I think you both have big egos. She wasn't going to chase after you, and you weren't going to chase after her......that being said, it wasn't going to work out anyways because you both are miffed at each other.

 

Note: There is never enough room for two fat egos in a relationship.

[dumbass2]

What is the last text you sent her word for word?

[Fhsjkfjrhsdh3646]

man laughing at me about it is really immature.i didnt write here to be laughed at and judged.i m seeking advice.i should better not write here again then.

 

Part of being a man is knowing when you screwed up and owning it.

 

Instead you're redirecting blame on us, when we're only trying to provide advice and help you.

 

Sometimes the advice you receive isn't the advice you want to hear.

 

My opinion is that it's over. Don't expect hot water out of a cold faucet.

[clia]

Have you asked her out for a second date?

[d0nnivain]

Maybe its thats simple but nobody answers the second scale of my question.so everybody tells me just give it up.i am sorry to ruin it for you guys but thats pathetic.lifes not supposed to be like that. it is funny coz nobody ever in hear tells people to not give up and fix their mistake. you only know how to judge and i am sorry to hear about it.i made mistake and what to fix it with this girl so if somebody wants to help me with it please do.if not then please ignore me.

 

 

 

Fine. Wait a day or two & call her. Don't text, call. Apologize for the screwed up timing & ask if you can make it up to her. Plan an awesome date. If she says yes, cut out the game playing. If she says no leave her alone. If you continue to pursue her after 2 rejections you are heading for stalker territory.

[VeveCakes]

Maybe its thats simple but nobody answers the second scale of my question.so everybody tells me just give it up.i am sorry to ruin it for you guys but thats pathetic.lifes not supposed to be like that. it is funny coz nobody ever in hear tells people to not give up and fix their mistake. you only know how to judge and i am sorry to hear about it.i made mistake and what to fix it with this girl so if somebody wants to help me with it please do.if not then please ignore me.

 

It is %100 a case of a woman not wanting to chase a man. If you like her, then you should have contacted her.

 

Haven't you heard the old saying? An hr is like a week in hot girl time. In those 4 days someone else probably took her interest.

 

No woman is going to sit around waiting 4 days for a guy to get in touch. No smart woman anyway.

 

You had your answer, you just don't want to accept it.