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When A Girl Blocks You On Facebook/Skype Out Of The Blue

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I am writing this thread asking for advice. I had started to chat, with a woman I had met on Omegle the other week. We seemed to have had an instant connection and got on well with each other chatting/camming on Skype. We talked constantly online for hours, when she was online and wasn't busy with her studies with school. We were flirty with each other and we had mentioned we were gonna exchange gifts, since Valentine's was coming up. I messaged her the other day on Tuesday and she didn't reply. The next day she blocked me on Facebook/Skype. I don't get why she blocked me, if she didn't fancy me why couldn't she just tell me online and not lead me on? The girl was 20 years old originally from Ireland, but has been living in United States. I had asked how her parents and brother would feel if they knew she were talking to an older man like myself. Her brother was to move in with her, maybe I shouldn't have asked that? Any advice would be helpful!

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The girl was 20 years old originally from Ireland, but has been living in United States. I had asked how her parents and brother would feel if they knew she were talking to an older man like myself. Her brother was to move in with her, maybe I shouldn't have asked that? Any advice would be helpful!

 

How old are you and was she really aware of your age when you first started chatting?

Ireland - huge Protestant/Catholic divide. If you are the "wrong" religion then perhaps asking what her family would think of her speaking to you may have put things in perspective for her.

 

Also she is 20, she may just have got bored, she may not want anything serious or she has just met someone IRL, or she didn't feel the same "connection" or something you said upset her... Who knows?

Whatever the reason she didn't just stop speaking to you, she blocked you, so you just need to accept it.

 

If you are "older" and are looking for something long term then stay away from women in their early twenties.

The older guy invariably gets hurt sooner or later, once she realises she is a hot commodity and younger guys start to look more appealing.

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Yes, she knew of my age when we started to chat. I really enjoyed chatting with her so much. Perhaps I came on too strong. But she came on strong to me as well. Perhaps I shouldn't have asked what her family thought? I was getting ahead of myself, as she blocked me before they even came for a visit and brother was to stay with her! She seemed to talk about herself a lot, and maybe she was just being friendly and flirty online for whatever reason?

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She did tell you she didnt fancy you by blocking you. Sometimes actions speak louder than words.

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This doesn't sound that surprising to me OP. Sorry to say.

 

It sounds to me that later on she got to thinking and she felt uncomfortable w being in contact with you. It could be the age difference and/or what her family thought, or it could be that she made contact w someone else.

 

Yes, the "right" thing for her to have done would have been to tell you that she doesn't see it working out after all. But in OLD-world many people view just disappearing from someone they haven't even met yet as a valid way of ending things. This goes double w 20-year-olds who tend to be flakier. And it goes double again if you are a much older guy and she is a 20-year-old girl (perhaps her parents or brother or even she herself wondered about your intentions and why you'd be interested in such a young girl; i.e., if you were some sort of predator).

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She blocked you most likely because you were overwhelming her.

 

 

When they block you, take the hint & move on.

 

 

Going forward, keep on line light, easy & infrequent. Try to arrange a real live meeting then save the OL stuff for occasionally liking a status

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I don't know what the age difference is so it is hard to tell whether it would have been a reasonable match or not. Parents finding out could have triggered something. If she was happily talking to you beforehand then suddenly you were blocked, either you said something untoward that really upset/worried her or some other agency was involved. It could be that friends or parents intervened and advised her not to remain in touch. It sounds a bit abrupt so something happened to trigger this.

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The age difference was she was 20 and I'm 33. I probably shouldn't have asked what her parents would have thought. She had her own place, and was an adult it's not as if she were a kid. But if I had been chatting with her when parents were visiting and her brother was staying there, it would have been akward. When we talked of exchanging gifts, I mentioned I had got her some things and she replied with "You didn't have to get me anything". On tuesday I sent her a message and no reply which was strange, the next day she blocked me on Facebook/Skype. Just as I was about to ask her why she blocked me on Skype she Blocked me!

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The age difference was she was 20 and I'm 33. I probably shouldn't have asked what her parents would have thought. She had her own place, and was an adult it's not as if she were a kid. But if I had been chatting with her when parents were visiting and her brother was staying there, it would have been akward. When we talked of exchanging gifts, I mentioned I had got her some things and she replied with "You didn't have to get me anything". On tuesday I sent her a message and no reply which was strange, the next day she blocked me on Facebook/Skype. Just as I was about to ask her why she blocked me on Skype she Blocked me!
Get an escort, it seems women love to play mind games and that could drive someone crazy.
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The age difference was she was 20 and I'm 33. I probably shouldn't have asked what her parents would have thought. She had her own place, and was an adult it's not as if she were a kid. But if I had been chatting with her when parents were visiting and her brother was staying there, it would have been akward. When we talked of exchanging gifts, I mentioned I had got her some things and she replied with "You didn't have to get me anything". On tuesday I sent her a message and no reply which was strange, the next day she blocked me on Facebook/Skype. Just as I was about to ask her why she blocked me on Skype she Blocked me!

 

I guess she was happy just chatting to you, but by you offering gifts it became a bit creepy, she didn't feel the same about you and she bailed.

Older guy bearing gifts, what does he want?

I wonder...

 

Your intentions may be wholesome, but I guess neither she nor her parents or brother would see it that way.

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