what456 Posted July 21, 2005 Posted July 21, 2005 Why would a guy keep telling you he doesn't love you ..even when you know that he doesn't?
JS17 Posted July 21, 2005 Posted July 21, 2005 what the heck are you doing talking to a guy that tells you he doesn't love you?
Merin Posted July 21, 2005 Posted July 21, 2005 Originally posted by what456 Why would a guy keep telling you he doesn't love you ..even when you know that he doesn't? He's an assclown OR He feels pretty certain you're hoping for more with him than he's willing to give and wants to make sure you know he isn't all about it... Originally posted by JS17 what the heck are you doing talking to a guy that tells you he doesn't love you? Good question
griftymcgriff Posted July 21, 2005 Posted July 21, 2005 Lol that would be my question also! Guys arent just the mean ones !
Author what456 Posted July 21, 2005 Author Posted July 21, 2005 well, what do you mean by an ass clown? also, when i know there is nothing there from his side then why would he keep telling me that? its as almost as if he is trying to hurt me for no reason. i am going to stop talking to him....
JS17 Posted July 21, 2005 Posted July 21, 2005 What do you mean, what does she mean by assclown?!?!?! I swear, i've never felt angry about a post before. This guy is a jerk! And man, if that isn't obvious to you from him telling you that he doesn't love you then you need a lot more help than LS can give you!
griftymcgriff Posted July 21, 2005 Posted July 21, 2005 Good thinking you deserve better then for some guy to continuously say that **** to ya!
Merin Posted July 21, 2005 Posted July 21, 2005 Originally posted by what456 well, what do you mean by an ass clown? also, when i know there is nothing there from his side then why would he keep telling me that? its as almost as if he is trying to hurt me for no reason. i am going to stop talking to him.... Assclown= Saying mean/hurtful things with the intent to hurt another person. Assclown= Jerk Why would he keep telling you that.. because he's an assclown. Better question.. why keep listening to him? Good idea to stop talking to him/seeing him/taking his phone calls/ emailing/text messaging
Author what456 Posted July 21, 2005 Author Posted July 21, 2005 honestly guys, i am going to see him at a wedding tomorrow and sunday. also, i haven't done anything to him so i dont know why he would say that. you know? i know he has some problems in the past about love/trust but i know i don't deserve this treatment!!!
Merin Posted July 21, 2005 Posted July 21, 2005 Originally posted by what456 honestly guys, i am going to see him at a wedding tomorrow and sunday. also, i haven't done anything to him so i dont know why he would say that. you know? i know he has some problems in the past about love/trust but i know i don't deserve this treatment!!! Blow him off and give him ZERO of your attention this weekend. This isn't about what you've done to him, IMO you've probably done to much FOR HIM. Everyone has had problems in the past, Everyone has been hurt at one time or another but that doesn't excuse him from behaving like an a**h*** and NO you do NOT deserve this treatment from anyone.
LucreziaBorgia Posted July 21, 2005 Posted July 21, 2005 He's mean to you, because he wants to be, and because you give him opportunity to be. If you cut him off, and refuse to speak to him - he can't be mean to you anymore. You can't get blood from a stone, and trying to be friends with someone who treats you this way is pointless.
Author what456 Posted July 21, 2005 Author Posted July 21, 2005 But why..why say those things to me for no reason? you are right Merin..i have done too much for him...i am going to blow him off this weekend and not talk to him.
Merin Posted July 21, 2005 Posted July 21, 2005 Originally posted by what456 But why..why say those things to me for no reason? you are right Merin..i have done too much for him...i am going to blow him off this weekend and not talk to him. Don't try to figure out why he's a douche bag.. seriously it isn't up to you to fix him or solve his issues Girl. I really hope you will blow him off this weekend and have a great time, this is the BEST MEDICINE for this Guy.. don't allow him to treat you badly.
JS17 Posted July 21, 2005 Posted July 21, 2005 Originally posted by Merin Don't try to figure out why he's a douche bag.. seriously it isn't up to you to fix him or solve his issues Girl. I really hope you will blow him off this weekend and have a great time, this is the BEST MEDICINE for this Guy.. don't allow him to treat you badly. this woman knows what she's talking about. listen to her and stop driving yourself crazy, it's giving him too much power.
ConfusedInOC Posted July 21, 2005 Posted July 21, 2005 Originally posted by what456 Why would a guy keep telling you he doesn't love you ..even when you know that he doesn't? Why would you keep dating a guy that doesn't love you if you feel, and I think you do, that he should by now?
Author what456 Posted July 21, 2005 Author Posted July 21, 2005 thanks MERIN, I really appreciate it:) i will completely BLOW HIM OFF..the problem is everyone tells me i am too nice..and i am..but i need to work on that. i will keep you posted.
alphamale Posted July 21, 2005 Posted July 21, 2005 i know some women who run after dudes who don't love them and totally blow off the ones that do love them
Author what456 Posted July 21, 2005 Author Posted July 21, 2005 alphamale, what do you think of my situation....
Merin Posted July 21, 2005 Posted July 21, 2005 Originally posted by what456 thanks MERIN, I really appreciate it:) i will completely BLOW HIM OFF..the problem is everyone tells me i am too nice..and i am..but i need to work on that. i will keep you posted. You're Welcome Have a great time this weekend, and keep it mind it's GOOD TO GO to be nice, BUT it isn't good to go or okay to allow someone to walk on you or treat you bad...
alphamale Posted July 21, 2005 Posted July 21, 2005 Originally posted by what456 alphamale, what do you think of my situation.... you said that he says he does not love you even when you know that he does not love you....so what is the problem here?
Author what456 Posted July 21, 2005 Author Posted July 21, 2005 why would he keep saying it??? its as almost as if he is trying to convince himself...because he has convinced me already. it's wierd though...he showered me with all these gifts--got no sex and on top of that tells me he has feelings for me...i don't know he is wierd. what do you suggest i do...
Author what456 Posted July 21, 2005 Author Posted July 21, 2005 i think that he still holds a grudge with me because i broke up with him in the past...twice
ConfusedInOC Posted July 21, 2005 Posted July 21, 2005 Originally posted by what456 i think that he still holds a grudge with me because i broke up with him in the past...twice And why did you do that?
Author what456 Posted July 21, 2005 Author Posted July 21, 2005 i felt that he was still hung up on his ex girlfriend of five years....she cheated on him and married someone else..so now he is in that mode of..you hurt me so i am going to hurt everyone else...i can't love and i am not going to....
ConfusedInOC Posted July 21, 2005 Posted July 21, 2005 Originally posted by what456 i felt that he was still hung up on his ex girlfriend of five years....she cheated on him and married someone else..so now he is in that mode of..you hurt me so i am going to hurt everyone else...i can't love and i am not going to.... If he has not healed completely from that, he will never be able to give himself 100% to you. If you understand that, then you can either wait for him to come around or decide to move on to someone else. It's completely your choice.
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