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How can ONS turn into something more?


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Hey,

 

I was out having some drinks this friday and met an awesome girl.

We went back to her place and things started to happend.

Aka. this was a ONS.

 

We really hit it off the next morning, but I felt the vibe that I was gonna have to leave soon. Understandable, everyone wants to be alone and freshen up after a night out.

 

I added her on Facebook several hours later after I got back home, and she accepted, we texted a little bit yesterday.

 

Now, where do I take it from here if I want to meet her again?

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Ask her out again. Dont get heavy. Just say to her fancy a drink / dinner etc.

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Yeah, just ask her out again.

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Yeah, just ask her out again.

 

I just feel that many people want a ONS to be only a ONS. No?

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interesting see what happens might end up being friends with benefits lol

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I just feel that many people want a ONS to be only a ONS. No?

 

Not necessarily.

The fact she is texting you back is a good sign.

If she was one of the "a ONS is only a ONS" brigade she would be ignoring you.

Ask her out on a proper date.

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I just feel that many people want a ONS to be only a ONS. No?

This is true, but not for everyone. I mean isn't an LTR just a series of ONSs with the same person? Most of my LTRs started out with sex on the first date.

 

If you like her, ask her out again.

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