ElizabethIII Posted January 28, 2017 Posted January 28, 2017 Matched with a few new people on OLD. One guy starts talking. Straight into what I do, do I have kids and do i want sex first. I said you clearly want sex first. He said it was complicated. So I said I dont want complicated. He said he would like a nice relationship. I told him to watch his technique then because he was bloody rude, asked inappropriate questions and came across very badly. he said I was judging him as he was not English and doesn't write well. I said there was no mistake in you asking if I want sex and I wouldnt if you were the last man on earth. Then I unmatched him. Saints preserve us. Do these guys really think any woman will want to accept such an offer?
thecrucible Posted January 28, 2017 Posted January 28, 2017 Some people on OLD are so rude. Luckily the guys I've communicated with are mostly decent but there's the odd one with no manners. They're not worth arguing. In a way I like that they're upfront because it's easy just to block them. What gets on my nerves is the ones who deceive you and then you meet and discover that they're only really after one thing. It makes you think "Oh great. I came out for this". 1
preraph Posted January 28, 2017 Posted January 28, 2017 Maybe he had a language problem. Maybe what he meant is "I like cats." 3
umirano Posted January 28, 2017 Posted January 28, 2017 It's a buyers market. The people with the most power in their hands to rid society of these men in the dating market are... you women! So good job on shooting him down. If women consistently punish this kind of behavior in the dating market it will naturally die out. 1
Author ElizabethIII Posted January 28, 2017 Author Posted January 28, 2017 Some people on OLD are so rude. Luckily the guys I've communicated with are mostly decent but there's the odd one with no manners. They're not worth arguing. In a way I like that they're upfront because it's easy just to block them. What gets on my nerves is the ones who deceive you and then you meet and discover that they're only really after one thing. It makes you think "Oh great. I came out for this". That is true. At least I didnt waste any time meeting him. It took seconds for him to show me who he was.
kendahke Posted January 28, 2017 Posted January 28, 2017 Matched with a few new people on OLD. One guy starts talking. Straight into what I do, do I have kids and do i want sex first. I said you clearly want sex first. He said it was complicated. So I said I dont want complicated. He said he would like a nice relationship. I told him to watch his technique then because he was bloody rude, asked inappropriate questions and came across very badly. he said I was judging him as he was not English and doesn't write well. I said there was no mistake in you asking if I want sex and I wouldnt if you were the last man on earth. Then I unmatched him. Saints preserve us. Do these guys really think any woman will want to accept such an offer? Sounds like a scammer to me 1
winny Posted January 29, 2017 Posted January 29, 2017 Matched with a few new people on OLD. One guy starts talking. Straight into what I do, do I have kids and do i want sex first Next time end the conversation here.
Author ElizabethIII Posted January 29, 2017 Author Posted January 29, 2017 Next time end the conversation here. I was going to just unmatch him. But I rather enjoyed telling him where to go and seeing him not understand why he was being told this. 1
phineas Posted January 29, 2017 Posted January 29, 2017 It's a buyers market. The people with the most power in their hands to rid society of these men in the dating market are... you women! So good job on shooting him down. If women consistently punish this kind of behavior in the dating market it will naturally die out. This. Unfortunately the men who do this do it because it works. every online dating site is slowly turning into a hook-up site. Even match.com and other paid sites. Those are the sites i met the most married women looking for side action. Best to just get offline or grow a thicker skin, otherwise you will be here every week making a new thread. 1
Redhead14 Posted January 29, 2017 Posted January 29, 2017 Matched with a few new people on OLD. One guy starts talking. Straight into what I do, do I have kids and do i want sex first. I said you clearly want sex first. He said it was complicated. So I said I dont want complicated. He said he would like a nice relationship. I told him to watch his technique then because he was bloody rude, asked inappropriate questions and came across very badly. he said I was judging him as he was not English and doesn't write well. I said there was no mistake in you asking if I want sex and I wouldnt if you were the last man on earth. Then I unmatched him. Saints preserve us. Do these guys really think any woman will want to accept such an offer? Do these guys really think any woman will want to accept such an offer? -- They do it because it works often enough for them. Even if it works once a year, they'll keep doing it. There are lots of women out there who don't have boundaries or can't enforce them and desperate for attention. We see that often on these boards . . . Good for you. I might report this guy to the dating site you found him on.
lionlover1973 Posted January 29, 2017 Posted January 29, 2017 Do these guys really think any woman will want to accept such an offer? Some do, and I surmise some women will be like "okay, let's do it".
ShyLove Posted January 29, 2017 Posted January 29, 2017 And 99% of women who accept these kind of offers are complete nut jobs lol I have so many stories from my male friends. But they still haven't learned and continue such behavior, even after these outlandish stories. One girl came over to my guy friend's house after her bartending shift for a hookup- without ever meeting him first. When she got there she was high on drugs and began throwing his furniture around and punching him before she even spoke to him! He couldn't get her to leave. He then called her an uber and had to basically carry her to the uber so she would leave. The uber sat in front of his house for over 30 minutes and then when he got the bill it was $63 and his rating was ruined haha Another friend of mine started off talking to a girl online for a hookup so he met her after hours at her place bc she invited him over. When they were making out she excused herself to the restroom. She later called him in the restroom and he said he's thinking he's about to get action in the shower or something but no. She called him in there bc she wanted him to play with her feces as she was smearing it on the wall I can't make this stuff up lol A third friend of mine had a girl accept his request for an immediate hookup but when she got to his house she looked nothing like her pics and he said she was nearly 300 pounds. He didn't want to hook up and told her they could just watch a movie bc he didn't want to be mean but she got offended and left and then a few hours later snapchatted him giving another man oral sex.... I could go on an on and on I have a ton of these stories So Yeah its rarely sane women who accept those kind of offers lol
Jj66 Posted January 29, 2017 Posted January 29, 2017 Why would a sane woman with other prospects agree to this sort of thing? Even if you just want to hook up, find someone who will treat you with a little bit of respect. 5
Author ElizabethIII Posted January 29, 2017 Author Posted January 29, 2017 I have had a date where we ended up in bed together the first night and it didnt turn into anything but that is the risk you take and it's fine. We got on, I enjoyed the evening. He was nice, a decent guy and I had checked him out on linkedin etc before we met so he was who he said he was. But we had talked for a while before meeting, we got on, I fancied him and that was that. But for it to be the first question you ask someone? You're right someone would have to be nuts to accept that. All the stories about the guy and the crazy women, he kind of deserves that. I had it from another guy the other day: he just said two words: wanna ****. I reported him and said not if you were the last man on earth.
SevenCity Posted January 29, 2017 Posted January 29, 2017 And 99% of women who accept these kind of offers are complete nut jobs lol I have so many stories from my male friends. But they still haven't learned and continue such behavior, even after these outlandish stories. One girl came over to my guy friend's house after her bartending shift for a hookup- without ever meeting him first. When she got there she was high on drugs and began throwing his furniture around and punching him before she even spoke to him! He couldn't get her to leave. He then called her an uber and had to basically carry her to the uber so she would leave. The uber sat in front of his house for over 30 minutes and then when he got the bill it was $63 and his rating was ruined haha Another friend of mine started off talking to a girl online for a hookup so he met her after hours at her place bc she invited him over. When they were making out she excused herself to the restroom. She later called him in the restroom and he said he's thinking he's about to get action in the shower or something but no. She called him in there bc she wanted him to play with her feces as she was smearing it on the wall I can't make this stuff up lol A third friend of mine had a girl accept his request for an immediate hookup but when she got to his house she looked nothing like her pics and he said she was nearly 300 pounds. He didn't want to hook up and told her they could just watch a movie bc he didn't want to be mean but she got offended and left and then a few hours later snapchatted him giving another man oral sex.... I could go on an on and on I have a ton of these stories So Yeah its rarely sane women who accept those kind of offers lol OMG these stories are awesome! As bad as the fecal clean up was, your boy has a solid, crowd killing story for the rest of his life! Lolololol:lmao: I often wondered what type of woman responds to a "Wanna F" message. 2
WaitingForBardot Posted January 29, 2017 Posted January 29, 2017 /...snip/ I often wondered what type of woman responds to a "Wanna F" message. Ones that "Wanna F". Isn't that the point? ..lol..
coolheadal Posted January 29, 2017 Posted January 29, 2017 Well things are a lot different today I see. I am just me I am not asking for that off the bat. Should let things develop and see if you both have somethings in common. If you don't you already cleared him off your list of prospects!
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