maestrok Posted January 28, 2017 Posted January 28, 2017 A lot's happened in my life overall and so didn't even want to socialize let alone date for the past 2 years or so. I got all that sorted and have been slowly stabilizing my life otherwise. Then this guy came along and he's pretty fun and great. Been on a few date already. We walked around holding hands and made out passionately what not. But right after each date, I feel suffocated or scared? I don't even know how to label this feeling because I've never felt this way. I can't even think or I don't know what I want and all I know is I feel like a deer in the headlights -- like stunned and paralyzed. I am not sure why at all. He's been nothing but great when we were together. Would it be possibly because we have different personalities (him being very social and liberal whereas I'm more private and selective)? Any thoughts or advice would be really great. Thanks.
preraph Posted January 28, 2017 Posted January 28, 2017 Sounds like you have some anxiety alright. I never tell any woman to ignore those feelings because sometimes they are intuitive and you should pay attention to them telling you there is something amiss, but if this is happening with every guy, sounds like anxiety. Can you imagine a hypothetical scenario in which you would not have those feelings? If so, tell me what it would be.
hercules22 Posted January 28, 2017 Posted January 28, 2017 i think not dating for over 2 years will have a impact maybe this person is making u feel like it worth loving again? my last girlfriend cheated on me so that put me off plus i just thought i was young why not just party and stay single now 24 nearly 25 looking to settle lol i havnt been in a relationship for over 5 years pretty much chose not to and live a single lifestyle either have random hookups and stuff then mid last year decided i want one got pretty close to one girl to bad she came out of a long term relationship so she wasnt ready to commit anytime soon and i had all these wierd feeling ended up liking her a lot aswell
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