Cem90 Posted January 27, 2017 Posted January 27, 2017 Hi, all. I'm 27 and my husband is 30. We have been married for only 4 months but have been living together for 2 years. I have a 5 year old from a previous relationship. All of my previous relationships have been pretty awful and abusive. My husband is a good man who is incredibly sweet, hard working, and is wonderful with my daughter. My husband is great on almost every way. The problem is that I feel like our marriage is lacking in passion. We have sex 2 or 3 times a week. But it's always the same. It's just sex. No love making. No kissing. Just the same two positions. Most of the time, I am the initiator. Ehem we first started dating, sex was amazing and passionate. We couldn't keep our hands off each other. Now, though, it's not like that. And I miss the way things used to be. I don't feel satisfied sexually or emotionally. I don't feel wanted or attractive to my husband. I've talkef to him about how I feel. He says things will change and whatnot, but they don't. We have less and less sex. There os no passion. When I try to kiss him, he just gives me a peck and walks away. He often rejects my advances, which is hurtful. I don't know what to do. Is this just what happens in a marriage? What can I do?
Michelle ma Belle Posted January 27, 2017 Posted January 27, 2017 You say you initiate but what are you doing that is reminiscent of your days when passion was in overdrive? Or are you waiting for HIM to 'change' and sweep you of your feet? 1
Author Cem90 Posted January 27, 2017 Author Posted January 27, 2017 Thanks for your response. I am still doing the same things I have always done. Maybe he's gotten bored of me. I don't know. I just wish things could be the way they were initially, not that he would sweep me off my feet.
Mr. Lucky Posted January 27, 2017 Posted January 27, 2017 I am still doing the same things I have always done. Maybe he's gotten bored of me. Perhaps it's time to mix things up? How adventuresome are you willing to be? Toys, light bondage, watch movies together, dress up, role play, talk dirty, sext - lot's of fun consenting things you can introduce. Fortune favors the brave... Mr. Lucky
stillafool Posted January 27, 2017 Posted January 27, 2017 Try something new it seems he is taking you for granted because he is bored.
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