i'm not sure if this is appropriate for this forum. want opinions on making out.

[daterhater]

my male friend of four years and i (i'm a girl) recently started dating... along with that came sex. we were so comfortable around eachother and open that sex was really great and we had no inhibitions despite being squares for the most part.

 

last night while he was giving me oral, he put his finger on the "pooper" then eventually poked it in just a tiny bit. i don't mean to offend anyone, but prior to last night the idea of touching the anus completely grossed me out. anal sex was something i never, ever wanted to try. i had no interest. i had no interest in getting "it" licked either. keep away i thought.

 

after last night, i can't stop thinking about it because if FELT SO GOOD. i guess i was just curious about it so i'm posting and wondering if anyone was ever in the same situation. i was a bit tipsy when he did it so i wonder if that's why it felt good. does this mean i would enjoy anal sex? do guys LIKE giving anal sex? do guys like touching? if i were a guy i'd think "no way am i sticking a finger in your ass, sicko" but he did it all on his own. I NEVER ASKED FOR IT.

[LucreziaBorgia]

There are nerve endings in that area that are receptive to that sort of thing, so its fairly normal. You are not 'sick' or 'wrong'. You may enjoy anal sex, you may not - being stimulated there and being fully penetrated there are two very different sensations. If your b/f knows what he's doing and he's fairly good at it - it can be very pleasurable for you both. Next time, make sure you 'empty out' and wash well beforehand (not to say anything about your hygiene, but it will help you get over any mental blocks of thinking its 'dirty' - in case you end up going with rimming and penetration). Just go with whatever he's doing next time he's doing that. He may be hesitantly working toward it, so see how into it you both get - if you get far enough, and you are both getting into it I doubt that he would turn you down if you asked him to go for full anal.

 

Have condoms and lube on hand, just in case you end up having anal sex with him. You don't want to do into it bareback and dry.

[Moai]

If it felt good don't worry about it. You'll probably dig anal as well. And good for you if you do!

 

As a guy, nothing about the female anatomy grosses me out, but some functions specific to women make me a little uncomfortable--I'll put it that way. Otherwise, it's all aces.

 

Go for it. He's obviously cool, so you win.

 

Oh, and it depends on the guy, but yeah, most guys I know are into it.