Dsaaew Posted January 26, 2017 Posted January 26, 2017 (edited) I'm writing today for support. I was with a guy for 5 years. We met the first day in college and started dating 6 months later. We had an amazing relationship for 2 years then with several changes (both athletes) he wasn't feeling it anymore and broke up with me. I was devasted. I thought the stars were alligned bringing us together. 6 months of little contact he texted me and we gradually got into it again. We graduated and moved. Me back home, him to another state. Fortunately our cities were 2 hours apart. I got a full time job, he finished a masters and got into an intense career right away. I visited him once a week cause he could come to me. Seasonally his job is 7 days a week. As that ended and his schedule opened up I asked if he wanted to live together and travel. He didn't seem overly excited, but said yes. A week into "living" there. He said he was confused, I packed my stuff up and gave him space. A week later it was over. He said the exact same things as last break up ( I don't know if I see a future). Followed the same pattern of time. I'm doing better than last time, but had a life planned with him. I'm confused, want him back, but also don't want to go through this again. Any thoughts? Edited January 26, 2017 by Dsaaew
Simple Logic Posted January 27, 2017 Posted January 27, 2017 It is rather clear you are not the lady for him. Move on, there is someone out there for you.
behappyallisOK Posted January 27, 2017 Posted January 27, 2017 stay strong. i know what its like to feel so empty. it gets easier
Author Dsaaew Posted January 27, 2017 Author Posted January 27, 2017 I guess I should mention. We got back together for 2.5 years. Not that it matters haha
Author Dsaaew Posted January 27, 2017 Author Posted January 27, 2017 It is rather clear you are not the lady for him. Move on, there is someone out there for you. Simple logic may I ask why you say it's rather clear
springy Posted January 27, 2017 Posted January 27, 2017 Simple logic may I ask why you say it's rather clear My guess - because he has now broken up with you twice for the same reason. Was not really interested in living together either. After 5 years I'd say he knows there is no future together. Hopefully you can see this too. I would advise not taking him back should he come around again.
Author Dsaaew Posted January 27, 2017 Author Posted January 27, 2017 Why would he come back a second time and randomly talk of our future plans and such then. This answer I may never understand. It just doesn't make sense to me
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