vibi Posted January 26, 2017 Posted January 26, 2017 Hello! I hope you will help me for my confusion. First of all, this guy is from my school days but we have never talked. Before few days, he found me on social media after almost 6 years. From then onwards, we are talking through messages everyday(from last 2 months), have exchanged numbers. Initially it was all okay, good conversations but then he started flirting with me and from few days he is getting naughty. On asking, he told me not to take that naughty stuff seriously. Also, he have sent me stuffs like couples quotes and proposing videos. We have met last week and he is really a nice person I can say. So I am not sure what is going on in his mind. Is he interested or just messing around? Because I kind of like this guy if he is interested. So what do you think? Especially guys can you decipher his behavior? Would be a great help. Thank you in advance.
NinjaX Posted January 26, 2017 Posted January 26, 2017 If a guy talks to you daily and flirts for 2 months, he's interested.
smackie9 Posted January 26, 2017 Posted January 26, 2017 If he takes you out on good dates and is interested in what you have to say and "remembers!" what you have talked about, he is interested.
TheDatingDudes Posted January 26, 2017 Posted January 26, 2017 I don't think a guy would waste that much time if he wasn't interested. I know I wouldn't.
preraph Posted January 26, 2017 Posted January 26, 2017 He's interested. Most guys don't go out of their way to "just be friends" unless they're gay. He sounds like he thinks he might like you. Why not give him a little encouragement. He's giving you openings. Now, it does worry me a little he hasn't just asked you out on a proper date, though. What I don't want is for him to lure you over to his place to watch videos. So change the conversation to a movie coming out you want to see and see if he will take you out. Don't start agreeing to just "hang out" at his house instead of dating properly because it usually means they just want sex and aren't trying to impress you or show you respect.
Redhead14 Posted January 26, 2017 Posted January 26, 2017 Hello! I hope you will help me for my confusion. First of all, this guy is from my school days but we have never talked. Before few days, he found me on social media after almost 6 years. From then onwards, we are talking through messages everyday(from last 2 months), have exchanged numbers. Initially it was all okay, good conversations but then he started flirting with me and from few days he is getting naughty. On asking, he told me not to take that naughty stuff seriously. Also, he have sent me stuffs like couples quotes and proposing videos. We have met last week and he is really a nice person I can say. So I am not sure what is going on in his mind. Is he interested or just messing around? Because I kind of like this guy if he is interested. So what do you think? Especially guys can you decipher his behavior? Would be a great help. Thank you in advance. Forget about mind-reading/deciphering . . . sit back and observe whether he maintains consistent contact and schedules more dates. Be receptive and responsive for a couple more dates then you can and should do a little more initiating and don't be intimate with him unless and until you have a conversation with each other about each of your personal dating goals. If you are on the same page there, great. If he just wants a casual dating scenario and you are hoping to have a relationship for yourself, then you aren't on the same page in terms of goals. Even if he says he's looking for a relationship (and neither of you can say it will be with each other at this point -- it's just about goals), you still need to sit back and observe how he dates you. A guy will sometimes say he's looking for a relationship because he knows that's what most women want, but he needs to demonstrate that. he have sent me stuffs like couples quotes and proposing videos. -- Don't read into that. He's future-faking. You've only met this guy in person once.
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