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Should I just end this?


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I think to get back on a focused track, you're going to need to stop using this or any other casual sex relationship to distract you from your troubled marriage, using it as a bandaid. You can never meet a good guy this way because a good guy with good intentions would not get in the middle of a marriage! So it's self-defeating.

 

You need to try counseling or whatever and see if you can fix your marriage, give it your best shot, and then if you can't -- end it so you can move on in a healthy fashion.

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I know plenty of men who only recently broke up with their long term girlfriend or FIANCÉE, who met the woman of their dreams shortly after.

 

That isn't OP's guy though.

 

She's not the woman of his dreams. If she were, she'd be going to a birthday party where she would have been introduced as such.

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When I say 'full on', I meant the chemistry. You can still invite your FWB or FB or 'friend' to your party. :D

 

Inviting them to your party would be a great way to cause confusion for the invitee. They are likely to start thinking they have significance in the life of the person doing the inviting.

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Thanks for all the responses, they have helped to clarify things :D

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