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Why hasn't he said anything to me?


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I'm just back from a holiday in US.

 

The last week has been best time ever. My uncle who lived there didn't have time to show us around so a relative/friend helped on his behalf.

 

As soon as I seen this guy - tom I felt a connection. He's self employed so he took time off work to spend time with my dad and I. There were a few days where it was just us 2, Tom and I exploring the city. Showing me places, trying out food.

 

My dad mentioned Tom did ask him if I was single or have a boyfriend, he's single as well. He said to my dad that he likes me, would like to date me, but same time to take things slowly. Everyone, all the relatives were able to see an connection between Tom and I. I even met his parents briefly. Morning before my flight his mum woke up early to bake cakes and biscuits for me!

 

The thing is he never said anything to me, that he likes me, just to my dad. He's perfect, both same age - early 20's. He can be a bit shy but he's so kind, caring and cheerful. Being around him made me so happy.

 

Now that I'm back home in UK for a day, I haven't heard from him. Why hasn't he been in touch? Does he like me?

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He's not going to tell your dad and his relatives he likes.you if he doesn't.

 

I don't know why he hasn't contacted you.

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So you live in the U.K and were just visiting the U.S. on a holiday? Could it be that he does like you but in thinking more about it he is not interested in a LTR? Did he ask for your number or did you offer it up to him?

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He asked for my number to Whats App

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So he lives in the USA and you live in the UK? If so, there is no relationship to be had there, unfortunately. You are both far too young to make that work. I can't tell from your post, is he a relative of yours?

 

If you want to talk to him, then reach out. Remember, there is also a time difference.

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He really liked you and emotions got the best of him, but then reality kicked in that you are too far away.

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You two are on different continents. Realistically, there isn't much chance of something developing.

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That's kinda weird that he talked about it with your dad, unless it's a cultural thing like asking for his permission to date you. (Or maybe it's just me) Or he might be extremely shy.

 

Anyway, it's only been a day... he could still contact you. Up to you if you want a LDR

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I messaged him first as soon as I was back home, day 2 no reply. I'm so confused! Why is being like this all of sudden?

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