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Is is a no brainer, isn't it? Or, at least it should be..

 

Hi Pops ☺

 

I think this statement is right... Real love is attained and expressed in a R when things become a 'no brainer'... because it has become an 'all brainer'. And regardless, getting it right... and wrong... and enduring because it is worth it. Because it enriches your life so much.

 

It's that point where the facades are dropped and knowing and acceptance is achieved and continually pursued as you grow together and apart. Where the things on that list are judiciously and selectively applied as appropriate because you know your partner well enough to know when they're needed... and when they're not. And when you're comfortable enlugh to accept and endure the discomfort of sometimes getting it wrong and dealing with it.

 

To me... love is intimacy at it's most profound level... wanting with this person to be known... and to in turn fully know. The whole imperfect, vulnerable, sometimes frustrating nd infuriating package that humans and Rs invariably are... embracing that because it's worth it. That's love to me.

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