GirlyGal2 Posted January 24, 2017 Posted January 24, 2017 so I was dating this guy for 7 years, we broke up last year but were still messing around and communicating everyday. He went away to school and we still talked everyday and when he came home for holidays he would see me. Last summer he started acting weird towards me like he wouldn't text me. So I figured it was someone in the picture. We weren't together so I couldn't be mad, right lol?. I found a blog which told me to do the no contact rule. so I started to do it for just a month a month turned into 6 months. I haven't spoke to him in 6 MONTHS. it hurts because this is someone who I have spoke to for the past 7 years everyday. Do you guys think he will ever speak to me again
Sweetfish Posted January 24, 2017 Posted January 24, 2017 so I was dating this guy for 7 years, we broke up last year but were still messing around and communicating everyday. He went away to school and we still talked everyday and when he came home for holidays he would see me. Last summer he started acting weird towards me like he wouldn't text me. So I figured it was someone in the picture. We weren't together so I couldn't be mad, right lol?. I found a blog which told me to do the no contact rule. so I started to do it for just a month a month turned into 6 months. I haven't spoke to him in 6 MONTHS. it hurts because this is someone who I have spoke to for the past 7 years everyday. Do you guys think he will ever speak to me again Why did you two breakup?
Author GirlyGal2 Posted January 24, 2017 Author Posted January 24, 2017 we had a big fight smh so it was mutual
Author GirlyGal2 Posted January 24, 2017 Author Posted January 24, 2017 Also, into the fourth month of NC, my friend told me was at a party drunk and was basically saying **** me smh
ExpatInItaly Posted January 24, 2017 Posted January 24, 2017 It's impossible to say if he will ever speak to you again. We can't answer that for you. I spent nearly 8 years with an ex-boyfriend, 6.5 of those living together. When we broke up, we needed to stay in contact for a little while to sort out the logistics of dividing up our property, finances and so on. After that was done, we gradually stopped communicating completely. It's been more than 4 years since then and we haven't spoken at all. But you know what? I no longer care. I have moved on to much bigger and better things, and he's not part of my emotional landscape anymore. It was a mostly pleasant chapter of my life, but I've closed it and open a new one. You'll get there too, once you truly accept that it's over.
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