JS17 Posted July 20, 2005 Posted July 20, 2005 i think this is more of a vent post but feel free to comment. i did the ultimate no no with my most recent ex, a very short relationship so i'm not quite heartbroken about it but sad none the less.....i wrote him a goodbye email. he was jerking me around after we broke up saying that he wanted a friendship and he wanted to see me....made plans then ignored my messages to find out if we were still on that day. i emailed him today that he was playing games and that it wasn't fair i apologized for getting angry about it but i forgave him for playing games. that we didn't even really know each other and i didn't want to see things end badly. that even though there was really no hope for a friendship at this point, he came into my life for an important reason and for that i was greatful. i didn't expect to hear back from him but i wanted to know that I did the right thing and should I ever run into him be able to say hello without bad feelings. i'm really sad to have lost someone who came along when i wasn't sure if i would ever find anyone else that i cared about after having my heart broken in the beginning of the year. i've had a lot of love loss this year and it really hurts. i know the pain will go away, i'm waiting, maybe longer than i should have to but i'm waiting.
Jilllyn Posted July 21, 2005 Posted July 21, 2005 You have to realize that there is always someone else. If you feel that he is not treating you right then move on. I have been in a lot of relationships and some of them have ended in friendship- but none of them were real friends right away. If you want to be friends with him- let it happen when it does, and know that you will find someone who will make you happy again.
AndrewJ Posted July 21, 2005 Posted July 21, 2005 Js, Time will be needed to allow u2 become freinds again. He needs to evaporate his feelings for you. One can never have enough freinds plus u never know when u need someones help. Good luck
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