Thanasis Posted January 23, 2017 Posted January 23, 2017 I feel completely rejected by a woman. I have never been with her in bed but I have been as a friend for almost a year. Always I hoped. And now she can't respond even as a friend. I had some bad experiences with her. She was always belittling me. I was hopping that things would change but now she can't respond, she can't see me even as a business partner. I don't know, if any of you have to recommend some youtube videos or audiobooks to listen to in order to comfort my pain !
preraph Posted January 23, 2017 Posted January 23, 2017 I can't recommend a specific book or audio. I think what you just have to do is see it for what it is and always was. She never was the person you hoped she'd be, and you never were the person she was going to be romantic with. She's simply not the right woman for you, and there's no other way to look at it. Now, there's pages and pages on this forum about guys who ended up in the friendzone because they tried the roundabout approach of just hanging around pretending to be "just friends" so the woman wouldn't run them off right away. You can save yourself from that ever happening again by simply asking a new woman you are interested in right away to go on a date with you. That way you don't waste time hanging around someone who is not interested. Listen, women know who they are attracted to within five minutes. And if they're not, it's not like in the Adam Sandler rom-coms where someone they would never be attracted to can wear them down and make them love them. That's fiction. So next time you meet someone, stick your neck out and ask them out. Women hate fear in men so the longer you wait to ask them on a real date and then make the appropriate moves in the first few dates, the less interest they will have for you. It's not going to grow with time. And often women feel really betrayed and disrespected when a guy hangs around under false pretenses and then she finds out he was after her the whole time because she's shared things as a friend and it makes her feel like a fool and makes the guy look sneaky. I'm sorry you are feeling bad, but if you will look at the situation realistically and mourn only what it truly is instead of mourning the whole package of what you hoped she was and what you hoped you would become, your mourning period will be much shorter and you will have learned something for the next time and do better next time because even if someone says no to a date, at least you are not invested in them yet and can go on to the next woman. Good luck. 1
Author Thanasis Posted January 23, 2017 Author Posted January 23, 2017 Mourning period is not easy my friend. The woman I liked, is a colleague. I can not avoid her. I see her at work everyday. What I am going through this period is something that I know. I really feel ****ing low. Depressed and like a ****. I remember her asking me out for dinner. What a **** I am. Now I watch her with her short skirts dancing in the parties and I get crazy. I feel ****. Really ****. I don't know if it can feel any better than that. I don't care if she liked me from the first 5 minutes. I feel pain man.
Author Thanasis Posted January 25, 2017 Author Posted January 25, 2017 She is a colleague. I see her every day. Don't know what to say. I can not overcome it. In the back of my mind there is a hope that burns like hell. Nobody ****ing understands me. I know there is nothing I can do anymore other than picking my pieces and move on. I feel so lonely... Hell. I am so alone. I don't want to see anybody.
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