Time is the best cure.

[BAcK]

And I thought I would never be able to move on. How stupid of me. For everyone out there, a break up is indeed painful but it is not the end of world.

 

I have been through it and like everyone else, I was devastated. I looked for ways to get her back. I pleaded, begged and even made her feel bad about it. I was hoping she would contact me, I was stalking her, I was crazy for her.

 

It turned out be be very nasty and both of us insulted each other. I was so lonely and broken and while she had got back with her ex and she was completely over me, I was still trying to get her back.

 

Then, one day I woke up feeling better. I felt alive again. Why? I really can't explain but it felt better. I realized that she was not the right person. Love is supposed to make you feel alive and make you a better person. She was not the person I loved. Or maybe we were not made for each other. I realised that even if we get back together, it would never be the same. Too many things had been said and done.

 

So there was no point mourning over a lost cause. The only thing I could control was myself. Become a better person, learn from mistakes I made and give myself time. I realised that whatever happened was for the best and I know I will find someone better suited for me.

 

So, to all guys and girls experiencing a heartbreak, it is not the end of the world. It happens to most of us. Sooner or later you will get over it and it will get better. Give it some time and live your life.

[LitTunnel]

I'm really happy for you my friend. I'm where you're at now as well. I still have lingering feelings and thoughts of my ex and I miss her from time to time but no where am I close to how I used to feel: devastated, depressed, panicked, jealous, lustful, overwhelming regret, thoughts I would NEVER heal.

 

I'll be writing a thread soon of my journey from devastation to healing. I just need to feel more consistent with my current state to feel that I truly am over her. Probably in a week I'll write it because I do truly believe I've purged her finally from my system.

 

Good job my friend and good luck. Your dream woman is around the corner. To our success!!!

[FastHands]

IMHO the more your involved-the more difficult it is marriage, kids... The ones that are more experienced have learned to move on quick and end up finding love and marriage, very soon.