tinker23 Posted January 23, 2017 Posted January 23, 2017 Hey.. So I am having some issues with what I should do about my relationship. My current boyfriend and I got together last summer and lasted about 2 months, I broke it off because we were just too busy and I wasn't having the right feelings about him. He is such a good guy and I decided to give him a second chance and we got back together about 4 months later. But after being together for just 1 month, I am regretting my decision, I really am just not having any feelings about him. He became very clingy and needy. I need help on how to break it off for good and not running back to him because I get lonely. If anyone can please give me their input, I would very much appreciate it. Thanks.
Sweetfish Posted January 23, 2017 Posted January 23, 2017 Hey.. So I am having some issues with what I should do about my relationship. My current boyfriend and I got together last summer and lasted about 2 months, I broke it off because we were just too busy and I wasn't having the right feelings about him. He is such a good guy and I decided to give him a second chance and we got back together about 4 months later. But after being together for just 1 month, I am regretting my decision, I really am just not having any feelings about him. He became very clingy and needy. I need help on how to break it off for good and not running back to him because I get lonely. If anyone can please give me their input, I would very much appreciate it. Thanks. Stop blaming him and start blaming your self. Stop getting into relationship because you are lonely. Get into relationship for the right reason and stop being codependent. Once you stop blaming other people for your problems you will find the relationship that fits you. If nice good guys are not your cup of tea.. i suggest you try other type of men that fit into what you feel is attractive. Be honest with him and tell him of his needy and clingy behavior. Maybe if you would be an adult and use communication and let him know how you feel it wouldn't be so hard. He may beg you to stay, but let him know that its not what your want and explain to him how you really feel at least do that favor to him instead of disposing like yesterdays newspaper. 2
Frozensushi Posted January 23, 2017 Posted January 23, 2017 He became very clingy and needy. Your attitude and lack of interest were the cause of that. I can only imagine what you put the guy through. My advice is stop being so selfish. When you break up with him this time you need to stop sending this guy mixed signals, breadcrumbs or whatever it is that you are doing. This means absolutely No Contact. Also, the part where you said "we were just too busy" imo, is you making excuses so you can walk away without guilt. Because if you were too busy, why did you start dating again? Right? Right. 1
ExpatInItaly Posted January 23, 2017 Posted January 23, 2017 OP, you need to not treat people this way. It's really not cool. Tell him that it's not working and it's best if you go your separate ways. Then find a hobby or friends to fill your time and ease lonely moments. Delete his number and cease all contact. 1
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