itsdinaah Posted January 22, 2017 Posted January 22, 2017 Hi everyone! So I recently met a guy (well I haven't seen him in real life yet). Anyway, I added him on Snapchat thinking he was someone else since he has the same name as my friend. Long story short turns out he's my best friend's roommate who I haven't met yet. We started talking a little and I suggested we hang out sometime and that perhaps I should give him my number. He said "please do" and gave me his number. So I gave him my number. And neither of us has texted yet. Should I wait a few days or just take the plunge and text him?
Scarlett.O'hara Posted January 22, 2017 Posted January 22, 2017 The problem with contacting him first (for the second time) is that you won't really know if how interested he is in you or if he is just enjoying the attention. I guess it depends what you want to get out of it.
smackie9 Posted January 22, 2017 Posted January 22, 2017 He hasn't texted you yet? He's not that interested....you gave him your number, ball is in his court.
salparadise Posted January 22, 2017 Posted January 22, 2017 The problem with contacting him first (for the second time) is that you won't really know if how interested he is in you or if he is just enjoying the attention. I guess it depends what you want to get out of it. Bzzzzt. There are no supposed to's with regard to texting first. Maybe he's sitting around thinking the problem with texting her first is he won't know how interested she is. Why do women perpetuate the myth that they're not supposed to show interest, and then worry themselves silly about whether the guy is interested? Mutual and balanced can work out nicely. 1
Author itsdinaah Posted January 23, 2017 Author Posted January 23, 2017 He actually just sent me a message on Snapchat. Not sure why he isn't just texting but OK lol
Jj66 Posted January 23, 2017 Posted January 23, 2017 He actually just sent me a message on Snapchat. Not sure why he isn't just texting but OK lol It was you who suggested exchanging numbers. Maybe he's just more comfortable on snap chat.
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