Itta Posted January 22, 2017 Posted January 22, 2017 Hello, there's one guy who has a crush on me, he started flirting with me, like wanting to hold my hand, touching me. At first I reacted pretty negatively when he took my hand out of nowhere I asked him "why are you doing that" he responded "I don't know" I still kept my healthy distance with him. He was still persistent and he decided to ask me out on date, I agreed and it was great! I thanked him for having a great time and after a date I put my head on his chest, it was amazing, the chemistry was very strong, so it felt like in amazing dream.Since then we started flirting, now I'm absolutely fine when he holds my hand, we started hugging each other, we got even closer to each other. His feelings got even stronger, he tried to kiss me unexpectedly but I panicked a little and slightly turned my head, so he could kiss my cheek. Then I told him that I'm shy, he kindly replied "it's ok" But he is really submissive guy, I often have to start conversations with him, plan most of our activities, he agrees with everything I say, he never said me "no" On facebook I've to text him first 85% of time, he only texts me first on fb when it's necessary but not to ask questions like "what are you doing?" or etc...So how should I act with this guy?
smackie9 Posted January 22, 2017 Posted January 22, 2017 He flirted with you, openly started grabbing your hand out of nowhere, was persistent, asked you out and moved in for a kiss, and you call him a submissive guy??? Girl I don't buy it.......if he is truly into you, and you became less available to him, he will become persistent again. He isn't submissive, he's being lazy. 1
Miss Spider Posted January 23, 2017 Posted January 23, 2017 Perhaps you mean "passive" no "submissive"? Agreed, he is a lazy dater....Step back and don't initiate with him for a bit. If he likes you, he will be wondering what happened and take more initiative. Good luck!!
coolheadal Posted January 23, 2017 Posted January 23, 2017 Do your really want this guy sounds like your unsure that you do. So many men out there why do you tolerate this sort of behavior. Nothing out of this? When they don't say how your doing in a text or just ask you with OK then either they're not interested in you or just don't give a dam. Move on..
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