Sev Posted July 20, 2005 Posted July 20, 2005 Ok, just writing because I'd like peoples opinions/advice... Earlier this year, in Feb, I broke up with my ex-gf, who I'd been seeing for about 3 months. That was now 5 months ago, almost twice as long as we went out for, but for some reason I still seem to have a lot of feelings for her. It hurts whenever I hear her mention another guy who I see as someone she could potentially go out with (Ie. Isn't gay or already seeing someone). I still find myself waiting for her to come online so I can talk to her, and thinking about her a number of times a day. Now, these feelings have been getting weaker over time, but they're still very much there - which seems pretty odd after this amount of time. To add to the strangeness, it's not as if we went that far as a couple (sexually) - I've actually "seen" other girls since then where more has happened, but that doesn't really do anything except temporarily dull the feelings. For some background: I actually broke up with her, because we had had a few problems, which while not huge, were enough to clearly see that the relationship wasn't going to last, and with my high school exams coming up and me leaving shortly after that, I decided to end it sooner rather than later. But it wasn't a hateful breakup. Is this usual? Do I need help? Any advice? M
fundamental Posted July 27, 2005 Posted July 27, 2005 sounds like you shouldn't have broken up with her. ...and yes it's usual to feel the way you do.
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