iphone_user1 Posted January 22, 2017 Posted January 22, 2017 (edited) I went on a date with a girl yesterday, when I tried to kiss her, after some signs, she turned her head lol anyway I just played it cool as if nothing had happened, kept talking and laughing, and I left like an hour later. 5 minutes later she texted me Her: Everything okay? Me: Yeah, why? Her: I'm sorry if I'm too cold Me: Why do you say that? Her: Because you tried to kiss me Me: It's just a kiss, no big deal Her: I'm saying it because I don't want you to think that I don't like you Me: Hey, it's okay, we'll see, we just met. I'm going to sleep, byeee Her: Bye! Sleep well Edited January 22, 2017 by iphone_user1
Popsicle Posted January 22, 2017 Posted January 22, 2017 How old is she? She thinks kissing leads to sex and she's not ready for that. 1
BaileyB Posted January 22, 2017 Posted January 22, 2017 More than that, how much experience has she had with dating? It just sounds like she wasn't ready for a kiss, on the first date. No big deal. If you like her, go out with her again...
mikeylo Posted January 22, 2017 Posted January 22, 2017 Maybe your breath didn't smell nice ! Or she wasn't ready
kendahke Posted January 22, 2017 Posted January 22, 2017 Was this your first time meeting one another?
ThisisIt606 Posted January 22, 2017 Posted January 22, 2017 She doesn't have to kiss you if she doesn't want to... there's nothing weird or wrong about that. It was just too soon for her personally, she seemed to like getting to know you (as displayed by her text) but a kiss on the first date was too soon for her. Just relax and she will reciprocate when (if) she likes you and she's comfortable with you.
preraph Posted January 22, 2017 Posted January 22, 2017 I wouldn't trust someone who did that unless they're a teenager. For a teenager, this is just fine. For an adult, we should know more what we want and understand what a date is about.
smackie9 Posted January 22, 2017 Posted January 22, 2017 She wasn't ready to make that step yet....I agree you handled it well. I'm sure after a few more dates you will finally get your chance to kiss her. I don't really see what the big deal is. You making a move to kiss her, made her feel desired and THAT is what is important.
elaine567 Posted January 22, 2017 Posted January 22, 2017 I went on a date with a girl yesterday, when I tried to kiss her, after some signs, she turned her head lol anyway I just played it cool as if nothing had happened, kept talking and laughing, and I left like an hour later. 5 minutes later she texted me Her: Everything okay? Me: Yeah, why? Her: I'm sorry if I'm too cold Me: Why do you say that? Her: Because you tried to kiss me Me: It's just a kiss, no big deal Her: I'm saying it because I don't want you to think that I don't like you Me: Hey, it's okay, we'll see, we just met. I'm going to sleep, byeee Her: Bye! Sleep well I think you handled it well on the date, though I think the texting was a bit dismissive on your part, was there a reason you had to go to sleep that particular second?, ie only 5 minutes after the date and immediately after she said she liked youi... If I was her, I would not be expecting you to contact me again. The "byee", sounds a bit condescending too...
chphan Posted January 22, 2017 Posted January 22, 2017 Me: Hey, it's okay, we'll see, we just met. I'm going to sleep, byeee This is the only thing that I would pause on. Seem like despite what you say that it is not a big deal. Comes off like it is and you are trying to brush her off. 2
joseb Posted January 22, 2017 Posted January 22, 2017 This isn't that uncommon. Last two girls I went out with both turned away from a kiss on first date. It's all in how you handle it. Which was ok apart from the end texts which sounded a little pa. 1
Author iphone_user1 Posted January 23, 2017 Author Posted January 23, 2017 Oh well, I've been wondering if I should go out with her again, I kinda like her, but she's like boring to me :s
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