blue_jay_bird Posted January 21, 2017 Posted January 21, 2017 I'v been dating my boyfriend for almost two year. I said "I love you, very much." I got the "I know" I'm going through a couple emotions now. None of them feel like love anymore. The worst feeling is I think I lied to myself. Maybe, I said it because I wanted to hear it back. Maybe, I said it because it hasn't been said in two years and I was worried it would never happen. Maybe, I said it because I want to be in love. I mean why Now, I just can't feel it anymore. All I feel is insecure and unsure.
Jj66 Posted January 21, 2017 Posted January 21, 2017 If he said it all cocky like Harrison Ford in Star Wars I wouldn't worry one bit.
Author blue_jay_bird Posted January 21, 2017 Author Posted January 21, 2017 I remember early in the relationship I used to think to myself. "I like him but I'm not sure if I love him" I would remind myself "don't say it" "don't say it, you don't mean it." I don't know why I said it. I don't know if I really meant it.
ExpatInItaly Posted January 21, 2017 Posted January 21, 2017 If you don't know if you love him after 2 years, then you probably don't.
Author blue_jay_bird Posted January 21, 2017 Author Posted January 21, 2017 If you don't know if you love him after 2 years, then you probably don't. I guess this mean's the same for him. Him saying "I know" after two years probably means he doesn't love me. What should I do? I'm not sure how to talk about it with him. I have a hard time thinking about breaking up.
ExpatInItaly Posted January 21, 2017 Posted January 21, 2017 I guess this mean's the same for him. Him saying "I know" after two years probably means he doesn't love me. What should I do? I'm not sure how to talk about it with him. I have a hard time thinking about breaking up. You two really need to talk. Do you envision a future with him? Why or why not? I would have an open conversation with him about where you see yourselves in the next couple of years, both individually and as a couple. How old are you both?
Author blue_jay_bird Posted January 21, 2017 Author Posted January 21, 2017 You two really need to talk. Do you envision a future with him? Why or why not? I would have an open conversation with him about where you see yourselves in the next couple of years, both individually and as a couple. How old are you both? We are 30. I have a hard time envisioning a future with him because; I thought I'd marry someone who like to go out more. He's a bit of a shut in but so i'm I. I worry I'll spend the rest of my life trying to drag him outside. He's very messy, I worry I'll be cleaning and picking up after him all the time. But he's also very kind, very smart, charming. Makes me laugh.
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