unsafe Posted July 20, 2005 Posted July 20, 2005 I have been dating a guy for two to three months now. We were friends for 2 years before we dated. But the week before the 4th of July he was busy with work and moving out on his own for the first time. He was calling here and there but not asking to see me. I tend to be a little needy and I am trying so hard not to be. But I had invited him two weeks before the 4th to come to my friends to party and he said yes. He called monday morning to confirm and said he had to stop off at a friends first and would be out after around 6:30 7. Well I was thinking he is going to drink and not be able to drive. Well 5 o'clock rolled around and he left me a message saying he was to drunk to drive and he hopes I have have and to call him later. I was pissed I was like this guy doesn't like me. I never called him he called again that Wednesday asking if I was still alive? Maybe I should have called him back but I wanted him to call again and show he cared. Anyway to make a long story short he ended up contacting me a week later and we talked about things. He said I over reacted and he was sorry and wanted to show me so he wanted to see me. I had plans for that night so I needed up going over there Friday night. He had a bunch of people over at his house and we partied. We had fun and we talked. I was drunk so I remember things but some is blurry. I remember saying things like I want this do you? And I am sure he said yes. He told me he wouldn't make that kind of mistake again. But that he has a feeling he will mess up again. He said he wants me to be happy no matter what. I think I was coming on strong telling him I need this and want this. But if you can't at the time see me pick up the phone and let me know. He called me the next night and we talked for 20 minutes. Then Sunday we texted each other and monday nothing. Yesterday he imed me on the computer for a little while and we have plans to go to laughlin this weekend. I am crazy I know I just don't want him to just want to be my friend. I like him alot and I am staying back not getting upset that he isn't calling all the time or even asking to see me. Anyone think he is not interested?
Merin Posted July 20, 2005 Posted July 20, 2005 He's still calling you and making some plans to see you on occassion.. so I think he's still interested, just maybe not interested in a serious/exclusive relationship...
alphamale Posted July 20, 2005 Posted July 20, 2005 Originally posted by unsafe and why do you think that? cause u said u are clingy and needy an coming on strong to him. boys dont' like this
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