immizunderstood Posted July 20, 2005 Posted July 20, 2005 I had a party this weekend. My boyfriends ex comes over with her mother, husband, children and her husbands brother. On my wall there is an asian painting (partcially nude). The ex's brother in law asks me if the painting was someone in my family and then proceeds to say to my boyfriend I never met this one before. (FYI my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 1/2 years he has a son with his ex. Keep in mind there must of been at least 50 people at my party. I was so pissed off by his comment mainly because everyone there is encountering this proformance. My question is should I feel like he came there with the intentions to come out of his face especially since the ex knows I don't care for her too much since she always has time to get into my boyfriend and I's business. Any input would be appreciated.
Author immizunderstood Posted July 20, 2005 Author Posted July 20, 2005 I guess you're right. But I think the real reason is the way he tried to play it off like he didn't know he had someone new. We do live together and this man comes into my home with his slick talking and I've never even met him before. I just feel like I wasn't prepared for him to be talking sh*t. On top of that when I see this girl I just think she always has a motive. First it started with the fact that I have children. Then it went on to the way he left the woman prior to me. Then she goes on to say well "Maybe my brother can come work as a manager for you because if something was to happen what would you do" He told her I would continue to run the business but she's like "you think she could run the business" I just feel like she souldn't even be able to comment on what goes on in our relationship. She has her own family to run. It's like my boyfriend tip toes around her, for what particular reason I don't know.
A Fly onThe Wall Posted July 20, 2005 Posted July 20, 2005 There are a lot of azzholes in this world .. You are only concerned because he has entered your life briefly.. Just remember that he is an azzhole and detach from it.. Blow it off
Author immizunderstood Posted July 20, 2005 Author Posted July 20, 2005 Thanks, I think I need to use that motto in life period. Cuz boyyyy! Does my boyfriend surround himself with azzholes.
RecordProducer Posted July 21, 2005 Posted July 21, 2005 I didn't get anything, but I am curious. Your BF's brother-in-law made a comment that was supposed to mean your BF had many GFs before you, right? I don't see what the half/nude painting has to do with anything and I didn't understand who's the woman who said you couldn't run the business? Which business? Your BF's? Can you be a little clearer please?
Author immizunderstood Posted July 22, 2005 Author Posted July 22, 2005 the woman who said I couldn't run his business is the ex from 12 years ago with whom he has a child with (a Son) . She's married now with 3 additional children. The brother in law is the her husbands brother, not my bf's. The half nude painting is what the brother in law thought would be funny to comment on and then proceeds to say I never met this one before. The only woman before me is his son's mother, his ex girlfriend of 5 years and me. We've been together for 2 1/2 years. Personally I find it to be direspectful to even comment on any painting. He just kept saying is this someone in your family (meaning the painting) and I'm like yeah I'm one of the beautiful one's. For him to say I never have met this one before just means to me that he was trying to be fresh. I mean hello the previous relationship was over 2 1/2 years ago. (or wasn't ) The fact remains he still should of had some respect especially in my home.
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