Hyperfocal Posted January 20, 2017 Posted January 20, 2017 Both mid 30's live 4hrs apart Started chatting 10 weeks ago, 3 dates total She is enfp I am intj So this lady has shown a lot of respect and affection to me, and I have brought up twice that she should know, I am politically centrist and moderately informed in such topics. I discover, know that she is kinda extreme. Usually after such political talk the interaction ends quick (ran this course a number of times on these specific political views before) This one is maintaining respect, but still injecting fluffy "Out there" politics. What's up? She is having me meet brother in 3 days. I actually want to meet fam, I would enjoy that. There has been no talk of exclusivity, and due to some inconsistencies in her actions/words I just want to date a number for a while, while continuing to consider her for LTR; allowing time to show what's up. Actually have several matches that I've sat on with uncertainly due to sparks with this one. There has been no sex fyi. Is there an assumed rel here that I missed? I sense anxiety in the air with her, and there's a lot of self help materials at her place. Her response to my direct question on this was elusive, I expect more clarity, mental health is a big deal. Are there any caveats to a 4 hour distance relationship (my first long distance one)? My fear is that crazy can hide with distance. I want to balance giving this one opportunity (She has a lot of offer which I am not filling lines of text here to describe), yet be fair to her, and to me. So, just guessing based on what's here: are we entering a life enhancing relationship, or something that will leave me/her hurt and time wasted? Thx!
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