C172 Posted January 19, 2017 Posted January 19, 2017 (edited) Hello! I'm a 26 years old guy and almost a year ago I met a very interesting and divorced 42 year old lady... We met alone in a small and very charming office (her office) due to a work issue! I have always had a fantasy with older woman and suddenly I was having in front of me what I have been wishing for. She was the kind of woman of my sexual desires. I felt a strong chemical between us scince the first look. Well, in that day things and talks flowed incredibly well and a "horny" conection was created! She said we would work together 2 times a week (we're both consultants) in the afternoons, scince she was needing someone to replace her pregnant cooperator and there was a big study to do in a short time! We've started working together, and we quickly developed a strong conection! It was stronger than everything I have ever had before... Very instinctive, very spiritual,as if we were always synchronized... 2 weeks later it turned into sex inside that office, and then everything became different between us. We became lovers. We've started to have lunch together, hang out together, having regular sex (in the office), until we've decided that we should have a real couple life. So, she introduced me to her 13 year old daughter as her new boyfriend and I moved myself to her house and we started to live together. I want to have a baby with her but she says maybe she will only try it if I officialize it to my family! If don't she says we'll be over. Howeve I'm happy she's considering having a baby with me. We're living together scince late April 2016. I live away from my hometown, so sometimes I go there on the weekends, but alone! We spent the new years' eve together in a very exciting and erotic night, but we past the Christmas week separated scince I was with my family. Im that week I was away, I know she slept (she told me) for three days with her ex-husband (father of her daughter), who is still her business partner in the the consultant office and has a company that requires some works and studies from my girlfriend's office. He's a 55 year old guy, very tall and strong, a real alpha male, with a much better physicall appearence than mine who have divoreced her 4 years ago to live with a much younger woman, (30 years old) that is still his girlfriend. As we are an open minded and modern couple, I'm not upset for her adventure, actually we have already had a swing experience, however it worries me that I think she's still attracted to him and still loves that guy. Sometimes I think she used me to show him that despite her age she's still able to catch young males like he have done. I know my lovemate have had some lovers after the divorce, but none was so young as I'm, so maybe she's really trying to do what I'm thinking. I feel really happy with her, that's the woman I've been wishing, I love to be with her, she's my best friend, a real good company, she's my support, my counselor, my lover, the woman that gives me the best sexual experiences and performances I have ever had. There are almost no limits or secrets in our sexual life. I feel that I want to live for many years with her. However, I feel that she still loves her ex, and she wants something else with him.... I also fear my family reaction to her age! What should I do? Thanks a lot!! Edited January 19, 2017 by a LoveShack.org Moderator paragraphs ~6
SunnySide0418 Posted January 19, 2017 Posted January 19, 2017 Please DO NOT bring a baby into this mess. 4
RecentChange Posted January 19, 2017 Posted January 19, 2017 NO KIDS!!! Your post I noticed you mentioned SEX SEX SEX and more sex. I think you are in lust with this woman, not love. You have lived with her for less than a year.... I don't know that you really KNOW her. Have you talked about your vision for the future? Marriage? Life long commitment? Also, keep in mind, at 42, the odds of a baby having a chromosome abnormality are 1 in 64. Verses a woman your age (26) the odds are 1 in 1,250. Would you be ready to raise a special needs child together? At 52 would she be up for chasing a 10 year old around? I think you need to SLOW DOWN. Have fun with her while you can, but please do not try to bring a baby into this mix. 3
GunslingerRoland Posted January 19, 2017 Posted January 19, 2017 Clearly there is a reason why you haven't told your family about her after almost a year. I think her sleeping with her ex should tell you all that you need to know. This is a fling, nothing more. 2
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