2005tahoe Posted January 16, 2017 Posted January 16, 2017 I recently met up with a girl for date 3 that I met online. First date was great, dinner and a walk downtown, kissed her at the end of the night. Second date was dinner only, hugs at the beginning and end. Third date was last night, dinner and a good game of putt putt. We talked and hugged a few times and at one point it looked like she wanted to kiss me but I didn't want to push it. We had a few moments of just staring into each others eyes which felt amazing. Discussions for all three dates have been great, lots of talk about family and life, I'm letting her do more of the talking but I am asking questions bc I am interested. We had discussed relationship and what we were looking for. I made the mistake of pushing to fast to form a relationship and apologized to her for that and made a fresh start with her. She had mentioned taking it slow and not sure what she wants. I asked her out this past Friday for this weekend and she mentioned that she may be free sunday night, which was last night and would let me know. I confirmed it with her yesterday afternoon and we met up, great sign of interest. Anytime that I ask her out she accepts and we plan it. She is very shy and has some insecurities about her appearance but she has a great personality and very beautiful. She told me that she was terrible about responding back to text or phone calls, but that's ok, I reach out to her without bugging her. We haven't met family or been to each others place. I am being very careful not to rush anything with her but I do want to advance things, I guess this is where I am asking for advice. We have discussed a day trip and I though about taking her on a Riverboat dinner cruise but it would be an overnight trip and a hotel stay. She said that that would be interesting and fun. I also want things to advance on the weekend trip and I would like to be intimate with her then How do I be careful with her wishes to take it slow but hint at intimacy?
preraph Posted January 16, 2017 Posted January 16, 2017 Well, on a cruise, being a gentleman can be expensive (getting two rooms or two beds), so not sure that's the place to try it. I think you need to do a lot of making out and groping before you take her on a cruise to sleep in your own bed and make sure the heat is there!!
Author 2005tahoe Posted January 16, 2017 Author Posted January 16, 2017 Well, on a cruise, being a gentleman can be expensive (getting two rooms or two beds), so not sure that's the place to try it. I think you need to do a lot of making out and groping before you take her on a cruise to sleep in your own bed and make sure the heat is there!! Actually its a one night river dinner cruise in Savannah Georgia, about $150 for the night, food included. I was referring to getting a hotel room that night nearby.
GemmaUK Posted January 16, 2017 Posted January 16, 2017 Her response doesn't sound like she is on the same page as you (the 'interesting' part particularly) and even though she asked to go slow you are clearly wanting to push your own agenda. Maybe try being a gentleman? Respect her and what she has said? 1
smackie9 Posted January 16, 2017 Posted January 16, 2017 Good lord you are planning a trip which requires a hotel room, already thinking getting a romp and you haven't even kissed her yet??? Good luck with that. How about just holding hands, a nice kiss goodnight before you go into your own rooms.....better get that extra room. 1
Ronnys93 Posted January 16, 2017 Posted January 16, 2017 Waaaay too fast there buddy. Just slow down a bit. The cruise can come later to be honest. If you keep pushing it in that direction she'll likely back off completely. Honor her wish here and take it smoothly. She's being receptive and likely does like you, but now you need to let her set the pace. 1
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