blake987 Posted July 19, 2005 Posted July 19, 2005 I took this girl out Saturday night and had a good enough. The thing is, when I dropped her off she invited me in but in a round-a-bout way I didn't. She said her parents had friends over and that they were probably drunk I just figured that we wouldn't have any kind of privacy if I did. But I didn't tell her any of that.
Angelina1433 Posted July 19, 2005 Posted July 19, 2005 What exactly did you tell her? If you really were'nt comfortable going in, you're absolutely not wrong for saying you didn't want to. If she mention it, just tell her you didn't think you'd have privacy. She'll respect that.
Author blake987 Posted July 19, 2005 Author Posted July 19, 2005 Thats the thing. I didn't really tell her anything. It was wierd, but I didn't go in. But I'll tell her if she asks. Thanks for the help.
RecordProducer Posted July 19, 2005 Posted July 19, 2005 I think you actually left a great impression because it didn't seem like you couldn't wait to lock together in her room and touch her boobs. You sounded rather serious and fair than anything else, which is not really true, because you wanted privacy. You wanted more than touching her boobs, right? In any case, she must be intrigued now. In the next episode you will show her that you're interested in her. If she seems bothered by you not coming inside, just explain the real reasons.
crazy_grl Posted July 19, 2005 Posted July 19, 2005 Originally posted by blake987 Thats the thing. I didn't really tell her anything. It was wierd, but I didn't go in. But I'll tell her if she asks. Thanks for the help. You didn't tell her anything? So, you just turned and ran? Wow, you did mess up. j/k If you just declined without giving her a reason, then that's perfectly fine. She might be wondering why you didn't want to come in and was disappointed that you didn't, but that will most likely work to your advantage. She's probably trying to figure out whether you're interested, whether you're just not that type of guy, etc. And the fact that she's wondering means she's likely to want to spend time with you again to find out. Just don't start giving her signals that you're not interested like not calling her back, etc. or she might assume that's why you didn't. Don't worry about it or even mention it to her unless she brings it up.
Author blake987 Posted July 20, 2005 Author Posted July 20, 2005 Yea I probably wont say anything. Thanks for the help.
Zaira Posted July 20, 2005 Posted July 20, 2005 I would be impressed with that. No need to say anything. I don't think she would have seen it as a sign of rejection or anything like that.
ReluctantRomeo Posted July 20, 2005 Posted July 20, 2005 Yes, unless you ran actually looking like a wimp, I actually think this was a good move. You left her wanting more and you're a little mysterious. Girls love this...
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