henderson14 Posted January 14, 2017 Share Posted January 14, 2017 I met this girl off a dating app and all signs showed she was interested. It lasted 3 hours, she was playing with her hair, seem excited, tight hug after the date, etc. Well the next day she unmatched me off the dating app and I never got a text from her telling me she had a great time. Which is confusing to me because why bother unmatching me. I still have her number. Link to post Share on other sites
Survivor12 Posted January 14, 2017 Share Posted January 14, 2017 For whatever reason, she isn't interested. Better luck next time. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Versacehottie Posted January 14, 2017 Share Posted January 14, 2017 I met this girl off a dating app and all signs showed she was interested. It lasted 3 hours, she was playing with her hair, seem excited, tight hug after the date, etc. Well the next day she unmatched me off the dating app and I never got a text from her telling me she had a great time. Which is confusing to me because why bother unmatching me. I still have her number. Prob easier than telling you directly. That was the indirect way--she knew you would see it and get the message. Good thing you only spent one date getting to this point. Good luck 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Spider Posted January 14, 2017 Share Posted January 14, 2017 Did you text her? A lot of women expect to be texted first by the guy after the first date. She may have figured you were not interested and unmatched. Link to post Share on other sites
TiredofWaitin Posted January 14, 2017 Share Posted January 14, 2017 I met this girl off a dating app and all signs showed she was interested. It lasted 3 hours, she was playing with her hair, seem excited, tight hug after the date, etc. Well the next day she unmatched me off the dating app and I never got a text from her telling me she had a great time. Which is confusing to me because why bother unmatching me. I still have her number. She didn't even thank you for the date/dinner/nightout? That is one unclassy move if she didn't thank you and unmatched you at the same time, like you are some garbage. Don't even bother talking to this woman anymore. You deserve better than this. Link to post Share on other sites
Author henderson14 Posted January 14, 2017 Author Share Posted January 14, 2017 She didn't even thank you for the date/dinner/nightout? That is one unclassy move if she didn't thank you and unmatched you at the same time, like you are some garbage. Don't even bother talking to this woman anymore. You deserve better than this. Well she insisted she pay for the first round, and then didn't want another drink when I got a second. Maybe because she didn't want me paying if she wasn't interested. SO she's not that bad. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author henderson14 Posted January 14, 2017 Author Share Posted January 14, 2017 Prob easier than telling you directly. That was the indirect way--she knew you would see it and get the message. Good thing you only spent one date getting to this point. Good luck I agree that that is easier, but I don't think she could assume I would even check or care. Link to post Share on other sites
CaliforniaGirl Posted January 14, 2017 Share Posted January 14, 2017 She just isn't interested... Move on. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Erik30 Posted January 14, 2017 Share Posted January 14, 2017 Were you still communicating through the dating app? Cause if you were just texting her the whole time, maybe she thought you guys didn't need the app anymore?.. maybe she deleted her profile?.. but I'm probably being too optimistic. You could try texting her, if she ignores it, she's obviously not interested anymore. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted January 15, 2017 Share Posted January 15, 2017 I have been on plenty of dates where I had a good time but there was not enough attraction to take it further......it turned out you are not what she is looking for. Link to post Share on other sites
kendahke Posted January 15, 2017 Share Posted January 15, 2017 I met this girl off a dating app and all signs showed she was interested. It lasted 3 hours, she was playing with her hair, seem excited, tight hug after the date, etc. Well the next day she unmatched me off the dating app and I never got a text from her telling me she had a great time. Which is confusing to me because why bother unmatching me. I still have her number. What does playing with her hair even mean? Some girls can't keep their dang hands out of their hair... nervous habit. If she dropped off the radar, then that means she doesn't have sufficient interest. Lose her number, bait the hook and drop it back in the water. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Imajerk17 Posted January 15, 2017 Share Posted January 15, 2017 (edited) I met this girl off a dating app and all signs showed she was interested. It lasted 3 hours, she was playing with her hair, seem excited, tight hug after the date, etc. Well the next day she unmatched me off the dating app and I never got a text from her telling me she had a great time. Which is confusing to me because why bother unmatching me. I still have her number. Well, since she paid, maybe she was thinking that shouldn't *you* have been the one texting *her* to tell her that you had a great time? This might sound old-school, but if I were interested in a second date w a girl and I had her number, I'd contact her myself instead of trying to devine her intentions via a "dating app". OR even better, I would have made a point to invite her on a second date at the end of the first when she was in front of me. That said, maybe your passivity turned her off (see above paragraph). Or maybe she was never really interested, which was why she paid. But meanwhile, yeah. There are plenty of stories such as this where a seemingly good first date happened and at least one party wasn't interested in a second after all. Edited January 15, 2017 by Imajerk17 Link to post Share on other sites
Versacehottie Posted January 15, 2017 Share Posted January 15, 2017 I agree that that is easier, but I don't think she could assume I would even check or care. She was looking for a first step solution, i.e. let me try this first since it's easiest and least confrontational. She weighed the odds of you checking (doubt she "cared" that was if you "cared") and this was a no brainer. Plus some people are uber efficient like that: unmatch you because you are not a match. Link to post Share on other sites
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