willeddey Posted January 14, 2017 Posted January 14, 2017 Hello everybody! So there is this girl that I like too much , it s been a month that we re chatting like everyday , I asked her out on a 'study date ' and she accepted my request joyfully we have studied a lot as we have talked a lot nonstop about a lot of topics , so when we got tired I took her home ,she told me she really enjoyed studying with me and we just shoke hands then she left ! And now I asked her for a second 'study date ' and she accepted What I don't understand is that she s always with her friends and ignores most of the time me at school .and when I flirt with her on fb she don't flirt with me , she d just say 'hahahaha' or thank u .... and just yesterday she sent me a funny video of a little boy who says he wants a sexy girlfriend .. she told me this boy want a sexy girl just like u do . She confuses me too much IDK whether she does like me or she consider me only as a friend
preraph Posted January 14, 2017 Posted January 14, 2017 Sounds like you're just her study buddy and that you dug this hole for yourself by only asking her to study. Only one way to find out if she'd consider you romantically, and that is to ask her out on a real date and make sure she knows it's a real date. "Would you like to go to a movie date with me Saturday?" And then if she does go, kiss her at the end of the night. To me, what she said that you quoted there at the end sounds like she knows you have a crush and the fact she's ignoring you around friends isn't good. 1
Author willeddey Posted January 14, 2017 Author Posted January 14, 2017 I m really confused because just minutes ago she told me that whenever she login facebook the first thing that comes to her mind is chatting with me
Author willeddey Posted January 14, 2017 Author Posted January 14, 2017 And one important thing I forgot to talk about , she is vergin as I am
preraph Posted January 15, 2017 Posted January 15, 2017 There is only one way to find out, and that is to ask her on a real date and be sure she knows that's what it is, not some cover story like studying. If you can't ask her out, you're not ready for a girlfriend. And that's okay too, but just know she's not going to just jump into your lap and so far all you've done is act like you're interested in studying with her. It would be wrong to kiss her while studying, so you need to ask her on a real date and accept it if she refuses and kiss her after the date if she goes with you. Otherwise, YOU are the one being confusing.
spiderowl Posted January 15, 2017 Posted January 15, 2017 Maybe she's a bit like me, someone who needs to feel there is an emotional and intellectual connection before taking it any further. She seems happy to spend time with you and this is good. She was joking with you a bit too. I think you are both getting to know each other. Next time ask her out on a different kind of date, maybe going for dinner or to a music event or something. See is she is happy to go with you to different places. Build trust and see how it goes. Not all women are flirty and forward from the start.
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