Brittybritt92 Posted January 13, 2017 Posted January 13, 2017 So I've been with a guy for about a year. It's been a very rocky relationship and there's been multiple times we've broken up and gotten back together. My dad passed away in 2016 and I decided a few months later to move in with this guy. He lived in a city I hated, a job I hated, and the relationship was stale-- but I kept it going because I didn't want to lose anything more than what I was feeling I lost. He ended up breaking up with me on a random Thursday when I got home from work-- and it was just plain ****ty. He said "he couldn't have fun anymore" so I moved back home and he immediately wanted me back and to fix things. I think he was just looking for someone to have while he was lonely. But I started dating when we weren't technically not in a relationship. He called me in the mornings, after work, at night etc etc. But I was talking to other guys on the phone, and even made out with someone on a date. Basically he called me today to "end things" because he wanted to move but I took it so offensively I told him I was seeing other people. He said he was surprised but he wasn't angry... I just don't know why I'm feeling a loss and a heartbreak right now. Was my security blankey taken away? Let me know what you guys think...
Simple Logic Posted January 14, 2017 Posted January 14, 2017 So I've been with a guy for about a year. It's been a very rocky relationship and there's been multiple times we've broken up and gotten back together. My dad passed away in 2016 and I decided a few months later to move in with this guy. He lived in a city I hated, a job I hated, and the relationship was stale-- but I kept it going because I didn't want to lose anything more than what I was feeling I lost. He ended up breaking up with me on a random Thursday when I got home from work-- and it was just plain ****ty. He said "he couldn't have fun anymore" so I moved back home and he immediately wanted me back and to fix things. I think he was just looking for someone to have while he was lonely. But I started dating when we weren't technically not in a relationship. He called me in the mornings, after work, at night etc etc. But I was talking to other guys on the phone, and even made out with someone on a date. Basically he called me today to "end things" because he wanted to move but I took it so offensively I told him I was seeing other people. He said he was surprised but he wasn't angry... I just don't know why I'm feeling a loss and a heartbreak right now. Was my security blankey taken away? Let me know what you guys think... No you weren't cheating on him. Getting dumped twice doesn't sound like a security blanket.
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