the_opposite_sex Posted July 19, 2005 Posted July 19, 2005 guys and gals, i've posted this before...about me struggling to let go of a past event where my b/f AND myself were w/ someone else during a 2 mt split up. It's just eating me up inside! Granted i was with someone else too, it's soooooo hard to picture him w/ someone else sexually...even though she didnt mean a damn thing to him. I refuse to use condoms w/ him b/c i know he used 'em w/ her...i cant even go down the same aisle the condoms are on in a store b/c when i see 'em, it reminds me of the situation at hand. This sounds ridiculous, believe me i know, but its how i truely feel. Like i said, it's been 7mts since the incident, he's the one who came back to me, and we've agreed that we wanna spend the rest of our lives w/ each other...but there's still this bump in the road....
Marshbear Posted July 19, 2005 Posted July 19, 2005 Did you have sex with the guy you were with when you were apart? If you did and you continue this attitude there will be problems. Your jealousy will eat you alive if you continue to feed it. Let it go or get some help if you can't deal with it.
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